13 reasons why you'll never get anywhere

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You're too concerned about your appearance and would rather whine about not having good clothes and a proper hairstyle than go out and earn it. Living in your comfort zone You're afraid to leave your comfort zone. Remember, the habit is developed within 21 days. If you have developed the habit of being lazy, pissing in front of circumstances, jerking off on the Internet until three in the morning and sleeping until lunch, then no opposite actions will occur until you do exactly the opposite things for three weeks.

Fear of not having friends
You worry that in real life you don't have and won't have friends who share your interests. Do you think the Lumiere brothers, who actually created the cinema, had friends by interests? Alexander Graham Bell sat down in the pub with friends in the evening and they discussed the invention of telephones together? About Tesla, Edison and the rest can be silent. In extreme cases, they might have subordinates, but the main task was always on their shoulders. It was they who needed to move the idea, to do everything with their own hands.

Procrastination
You think you should wait a bit longer, because you can do whatever you want to do at any time. Of course, you're all static shit and you're a genius. Open your eyes wider - no, it's not. And the more you spend your free time trying to think about something as far away as possible and even more free time, you flush that time down the toilet. The best, most convenient time will never come. Moreover, there will always be less and less time. You don't need to discuss your idea with anyone.

Encouraging your mistakes
All that you have achieved and have not achieved at the moment is 99% of the result of your work. Do you want to mention diseases? Fuck you. The last percentage is your sores, more than half of which, by the way, also goes to the other 99 percent. Smoking, drinking alcohol, eating fast food, eating chips will eventually give you even more reasons to postpone something for later. You're preoccupied with the phrase " it's not as bad as it sounds." But if your life isn't moving, you're the first one to blame.
Do this, look at the relevant lessons, spend time on it, and you will be able to do exactly the same. You can play the piano just like any of your favorite pianists, draw like your favorite artists, and write books as good as your favorite writers. The main thing is to develop the skill. Stop going to your favorite cafe and pick up your favorite dish. Buy the ingredients and prepare this dish yourself. And over time, you will get if not better, then in extreme cases exactly the same.

Communication out of politeness / Inability to refuse
Do you have any friends with whom communication does not bring you any benefit at all? Avoid such communication or keep it to a minimum. And this will not be something mercantile, just there is a certain truth that everyone gets from childhood, and if you do not know it, then here it is - " all your important things are the most important in the world." If you have a specific job, a plan for the day, then know that nothing should lead you off this course, except for force majeure, more important things.

Superficiality of thoughts / Shallow knowledge
Fill in the smallest knowledge problems. Instead of rhetorical questions, "I wonder why this and that happens so-and-so?" write this question down on your phone and then spend time at home, finding out in detail the principle of the subject of interest, the facts of history, politics, biography. The advantages are that you can have absolutely any conversation with anyone, as well as make your fat brain work the way it should and the way it wants to work. Develop this habit, and your level of knowledge will increase by 85 percent in 2 months.

Internet Addiction
I hope everything is clear here. Funny pictures do nothing to improve your business. Your important matters are the most important. Don't be rude if you don't respond to a couple of incoming emails. At the time of work (if you really need a contact for it, which, however, is unlikely), block the reception of messages. You'll save yourself a lot of time. Don't binge - read all the articles in the world-it's not productive. Set aside a special time for this and read what you want in your free time. In fact, you will realize that you were not self-educating, but simply wasting your time.

Fear of being a leader / Unwillingness to Grow up
Perhaps you are used to some force majeure circumstances coming to naught by themselves, but the further your life goes, the more your laziness, the desire to let go of the situation will lead to an escalation of the problem, from which you certainly will not be saved by your friends and acquaintances. You are the most important person in your life. The word "I", which will relate specifically to you, you can say the only one in the universe. Make this "I" something more than just a letter. Take your life in your hands, your childhood is over, no one will save you anymore.

Biases
Biases are comparable to the following example: one day when you leave your entrance, you stumble into a puddle. You fall into it, get completely wet and then go home, you don't want to do anything, especially go outside - there's a puddle there. Well, remember - the puddle dries up. Just like your failures , they're only temporary. Once you take action, you'll learn how to jump over a puddle and then gain wisdom over time.: this is the very knowledge that all puddles dry up.

Busy with unimportant tasks
Have you ever given up on everything and turned on your favorite TV show/game, just going to bed instead of just doing what you need to do? This is a completely unacceptable thing, and now I will explain why. First, there is a rule-your important things are the most important. The others must and must wait. Secondly, at this very time, when the subconscious mind and consciousness are already mentally prepared for hard work, a total failure occurs - you put the working brain on its shoulder blades, as if by force.

Waste of money
Immediately-stop going to the cafe. If you really need to eat, go to the dining room, it is probably located near your place of study or work. There and feed tastier, and everything is much cheaper. Need Wi-Fi and it's not in the dining room? Okay, then you can go to the cafe, but take the cheapest thing you can get there. A cup of tea or espresso so you don't get kicked out. And you eat in the dining room and at home. Keep a notebook (or write it down on your phone) of your expenses for a week. See what you spend the most money on, and then ask yourself the question, how much do you need it?
It seems like unimportant purchases in the form of chocolate cheese cakes, jellies and yoghurts came out in an impressive amount by the end of the month.

Celebrating your singular talent
Are you good at juggling and proud of it?

Fear of getting into an awkward situation
You don't have to be afraid to ask questions just because you feel uncomfortable.
If you are afraid that you will do something out of the ordinary, and they will laugh at you, then you probably already know what to do.

P.S.
Also, it doesn't matter if you find this set of items somewhat banal or vice versa. You always need to know why you're doing certain things, not just doing them. And then the path to self-realization will be built by a road of yellow bricks ahead of you. And it is important to follow this road. And you should definitely go.
 
Hello bro, let's talk today about the eternal excuse "there is no time today, I will do it later."

For me, this is one of the main ways to fuck up my dream - to say "No time" all the time.

I myself regret the moments when I said this to myself. After all, if I had started earlier, I would have done much more. I know my peers who started to card in school, and they have more experience and money, whatever one may say) Time plays an important role.

Everyone has probably already heard about such a concept as "comfort zone". This is when you don't want to change anything, because change is stress for the body. And when we do the same type of actions, we are just in this very comfort zone. And getting out of it is scary and unpleasant, because there is a lot outside of it that we do not know.

And what do you think, what is the reason that makes us not strain and not do fucking new things? Right! This is the very reason - "there is no time!"

This is a fucking trick for myself, because it looks very realistic. And not everyone can admit to themselves that this is just an excuse. When I myself was still working at a car wash, I could not find time for anything at all, even for very important things. Was it really so?

Now I understand, so it only seemed to me. My brain was fooling itself into staying in this same fucking comfort zone. It seems like you're busy making money. I want to live better, get more money, but it doesn't work, I don't have enough time.

Now I have come to the conclusion that I earn about the same amount of money a month for a long time. And all for the same reason - I do the same thing, but I don't have time for new things. Although I test various new topics, not all of them go as well as they could, because I don't pay as much attention to them as I could. And all for the same reason, yes, yes.

From time to time I ask myself, but what I am doing now allows me to live the way I want it?

And I answer myself no. Many will say that Teacher, you are crazy, you are doing a lot of money, where else are you going to do, but no, guys. Along with income, needs also grow. And this is good, it helps you not to stand still.

Let me summarize. If you constantly fuck, but don't get what you want, but you don't have time to change it, then you just need to stop and think. Are you really moving towards your goal or are you just wasting your time and afraid to change something?

There is even an anecdote on this topic.

A bear is walking through the forest, and then he sees a man sawing a tree. He watches him for 5 minutes, but the matter does not budge. The bear approaches him and says:
- Man, your saw is stupid, can you sharpen it? It will be faster this way.
- What are you, bear, crazy?! When should I sharpen it? I have no time. It is necessary to cut!

I hope you get the point.

Ask yourself, what are you doing now that allows you to live the way you want it?
 
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