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For those who are moving along the path of developing themselves and the world around them.
Those who are engaged in the study and knowledge of the inner psychological nature of man and the world around him.
Those who follow the path of awareness, the path of personal growth.
The first stage of personal growth
At first, a person simply lives and knows this external world. How it works, what controls it, and how to find your place in it. He collects facts, analyzes based on what he sees and hears about the world around him.
And if trouble happens, then the person blames either the situation or the people. The bad people or the bad situation are to blame. Everything is good - it means that people were good or a successful situation.
Man lives trying to satisfy his needs. Acts from generally accepted norms and rules of behavior, without thinking too much. Sometimes he observes them, sometimes he violates them.
He even superficially understands that the world is not perfect and people are not perfect. But he doesn't really think about himself, about his inner world, about the inner world of other people.
The second stage of personal growth
Then comes the next stage. When the understanding comes that everything is not so simple in this world. Here Man begins to discover for himself not only the external, but also the internal world.
He begins to know himself, to study himself. An understanding comes that a person attracts certain events and certain people with his inner state. And the words "what's inside is outside" become clear.
A person begins to observe his feelings, thoughts and the events that happen to him. And it turns out that it is not she / he who treats me badly - but I get angry and think badly about her / him.
As a rule, such awareness comes after a person is covered by a wave of suffering. And then a person begins to be less interested in the outside world, plunging into the inner world. Over this inner world, he begins to think, analyze, look for answers to his questions.
A person's activity in the outer world begins to decline, and he devotes more and more time to the inner world. Begins to ask questions about the meaning of life, about the purpose of human existence, about how his own inner world works ... how people are arranged. What motivates people, what are their goals, their desires. And here a person can:
Get angry with the whole world and people, for a person begins to see and understand the shortcomings of people, the shortcomings of the world. Here he can concentrate on the dark side and see only it, everywhere and in everything.
Then he starts talking to everyone about what he sees and understands. Communication with such a person becomes unpleasant, so he grumbles all the time and is unhappy with everything.
The person himself may not notice that his constant negative statements are unpleasant to others. He thinks that he is opening people's eyes, showing them a reality that they do not see. I am fully convinced that it brings enlightenment to people and provides useful information.
Can see his own imperfection and get angry with himself. Turning the pupils with their eyes into the soul, to understand that He Himself is not white and fluffy, moreover, he is never perfect and not perfect. From this realization, a person can be very upset and angry with himself. Moreover, strong aggression directed inwardly can lead to the emergence of a number of psychosomatic diseases.
Accept your own imperfection and imperfection of this world. In this case, a person can choose:
continue to live as he lived, trying to drown out inner pain and suffering;
start improving: yourself and the whole world;
to change for the better himself and what is ready for change around him. Because he understands that the green fruit should not be picked, it must ripen. Everything has its place and time.
Of all the options, the most successful is to change yourself and change what is ready to change.
Since, being angry with the whole world and people, a person can decide to get out of this life. Like, everything, stop - I'm leaving you. And after all, he can really say goodbye to his life. There are different ways of leaving.
If a person continues to live as he lived, reconciling himself with his imperfection and imperfection of the external world, then the internal psychological pain as a signal for change is constantly muffled. There are different ways to manage pain. For example, a person can become such a sweet philosophical alcoholic, with a deep sadness in his eyes.
Attempts to change the whole world lead a person to a passion for various ideological teachings. He begins to actively drive everyone with a stick to happiness. Those who try to resist are severely punished.
Moreover, such a person knows exactly where this happiness is. And he knows for sure that it will suit absolutely everyone, it's just that we fools don't understand this. When you get there, you will understand and say thank you. It is difficult to deduce a person from this narrowness of consciousness, because he is sincerely convinced that he is doing everything right.
He is driven by the noble idea of the salvation and improvement of all people and the world in this particular way. There are different ways: from religious and political movements to the idea of one specific person. And here we are faced with the most powerful virus that a person can be infected with - a thought or an idea.
Once I consulted about the personal relationship of one person who obsessively made comments to all the people who came into his field of vision. Even just passers-by on the street.
To a simple question - why are you doing this? - came the answer: "Well, look how he behaves badly." Smiled. I even wanted to tell him that if you don't tell people what they need to do, you won't know where you need to go.
But she said nothing. I understood that everything is much deeper than simple bad manners. As a result of the consultation, it turned out that in this way he changes people for the better. “I point out to them the shortcomings - after all, they do not see themselves. And if I don't tell them, they will remain in the dark. I have to tell them, so at least they will think, and they will have a chance to change for the better. "
It turns out that he decided that since it is given to him to see the inner world of people, then he must tell people what he sees. For people do not see themselves. Something like this.
However, I realized a long time ago that when you conduct consultations and come across a person walking the path of inner self-improvement ... sometimes their behavior looks strange to others, and their thoughts seem sooo unusual.
The third stage of personal growth
A person is faced with the understanding that work on personal self-development is a constant thing.
Periods of diving and ascending are frequent and not very deep at first. Moreover, the period of immersion in your own world can be accompanied by a depressed state, mood, the appearance of sad thoughts. On the other hand, the periods of ascent into the external world and being on the surface of the external world are accompanied by extraordinary lightness and fullness of vital energy.
This is due to the fact that a person, having plunged into the inner world, found in it a dark piece of himself. Then, accepting and realizing this particle of himself, the person, as it were, brings his own dark unconscious particle (the key word here is himself) to the level of the conscious. And she no longer has the same power over a person. Now the person himself can control her, and not she, hiding in the bushes of the unconscious.
It's like finding and picking up the drifts that have been hurting you all the time. Everything, you are free from it. Now you can live in peace until the time comes to get the next one.
The fourth stage of personal growth
The period of being on the surface, at the external level, becomes longer and filled with good mood, positive energy. A person even begins to think that this is all, he is awakened, he has received his sight, everything is over. Alas ... it has just begun.
The study of a deeper inner layer of your personality will begin.
Immersions into your inner world will now be slower and deeper.
Exactly to the extent that you are ready for this meeting with yourself.
Those who are engaged in the study and knowledge of the inner psychological nature of man and the world around him.
Those who follow the path of awareness, the path of personal growth.
The first stage of personal growth
At first, a person simply lives and knows this external world. How it works, what controls it, and how to find your place in it. He collects facts, analyzes based on what he sees and hears about the world around him.
And if trouble happens, then the person blames either the situation or the people. The bad people or the bad situation are to blame. Everything is good - it means that people were good or a successful situation.
Man lives trying to satisfy his needs. Acts from generally accepted norms and rules of behavior, without thinking too much. Sometimes he observes them, sometimes he violates them.
He even superficially understands that the world is not perfect and people are not perfect. But he doesn't really think about himself, about his inner world, about the inner world of other people.
The second stage of personal growth
Then comes the next stage. When the understanding comes that everything is not so simple in this world. Here Man begins to discover for himself not only the external, but also the internal world.
He begins to know himself, to study himself. An understanding comes that a person attracts certain events and certain people with his inner state. And the words "what's inside is outside" become clear.
A person begins to observe his feelings, thoughts and the events that happen to him. And it turns out that it is not she / he who treats me badly - but I get angry and think badly about her / him.
As a rule, such awareness comes after a person is covered by a wave of suffering. And then a person begins to be less interested in the outside world, plunging into the inner world. Over this inner world, he begins to think, analyze, look for answers to his questions.
A person's activity in the outer world begins to decline, and he devotes more and more time to the inner world. Begins to ask questions about the meaning of life, about the purpose of human existence, about how his own inner world works ... how people are arranged. What motivates people, what are their goals, their desires. And here a person can:
Get angry with the whole world and people, for a person begins to see and understand the shortcomings of people, the shortcomings of the world. Here he can concentrate on the dark side and see only it, everywhere and in everything.
Then he starts talking to everyone about what he sees and understands. Communication with such a person becomes unpleasant, so he grumbles all the time and is unhappy with everything.
The person himself may not notice that his constant negative statements are unpleasant to others. He thinks that he is opening people's eyes, showing them a reality that they do not see. I am fully convinced that it brings enlightenment to people and provides useful information.
Can see his own imperfection and get angry with himself. Turning the pupils with their eyes into the soul, to understand that He Himself is not white and fluffy, moreover, he is never perfect and not perfect. From this realization, a person can be very upset and angry with himself. Moreover, strong aggression directed inwardly can lead to the emergence of a number of psychosomatic diseases.
Accept your own imperfection and imperfection of this world. In this case, a person can choose:
continue to live as he lived, trying to drown out inner pain and suffering;
start improving: yourself and the whole world;
to change for the better himself and what is ready for change around him. Because he understands that the green fruit should not be picked, it must ripen. Everything has its place and time.
Of all the options, the most successful is to change yourself and change what is ready to change.
Since, being angry with the whole world and people, a person can decide to get out of this life. Like, everything, stop - I'm leaving you. And after all, he can really say goodbye to his life. There are different ways of leaving.
If a person continues to live as he lived, reconciling himself with his imperfection and imperfection of the external world, then the internal psychological pain as a signal for change is constantly muffled. There are different ways to manage pain. For example, a person can become such a sweet philosophical alcoholic, with a deep sadness in his eyes.
Attempts to change the whole world lead a person to a passion for various ideological teachings. He begins to actively drive everyone with a stick to happiness. Those who try to resist are severely punished.
Moreover, such a person knows exactly where this happiness is. And he knows for sure that it will suit absolutely everyone, it's just that we fools don't understand this. When you get there, you will understand and say thank you. It is difficult to deduce a person from this narrowness of consciousness, because he is sincerely convinced that he is doing everything right.
He is driven by the noble idea of the salvation and improvement of all people and the world in this particular way. There are different ways: from religious and political movements to the idea of one specific person. And here we are faced with the most powerful virus that a person can be infected with - a thought or an idea.
Once I consulted about the personal relationship of one person who obsessively made comments to all the people who came into his field of vision. Even just passers-by on the street.
To a simple question - why are you doing this? - came the answer: "Well, look how he behaves badly." Smiled. I even wanted to tell him that if you don't tell people what they need to do, you won't know where you need to go.
But she said nothing. I understood that everything is much deeper than simple bad manners. As a result of the consultation, it turned out that in this way he changes people for the better. “I point out to them the shortcomings - after all, they do not see themselves. And if I don't tell them, they will remain in the dark. I have to tell them, so at least they will think, and they will have a chance to change for the better. "
It turns out that he decided that since it is given to him to see the inner world of people, then he must tell people what he sees. For people do not see themselves. Something like this.
However, I realized a long time ago that when you conduct consultations and come across a person walking the path of inner self-improvement ... sometimes their behavior looks strange to others, and their thoughts seem sooo unusual.
The third stage of personal growth
A person is faced with the understanding that work on personal self-development is a constant thing.
Periods of diving and ascending are frequent and not very deep at first. Moreover, the period of immersion in your own world can be accompanied by a depressed state, mood, the appearance of sad thoughts. On the other hand, the periods of ascent into the external world and being on the surface of the external world are accompanied by extraordinary lightness and fullness of vital energy.
This is due to the fact that a person, having plunged into the inner world, found in it a dark piece of himself. Then, accepting and realizing this particle of himself, the person, as it were, brings his own dark unconscious particle (the key word here is himself) to the level of the conscious. And she no longer has the same power over a person. Now the person himself can control her, and not she, hiding in the bushes of the unconscious.
It's like finding and picking up the drifts that have been hurting you all the time. Everything, you are free from it. Now you can live in peace until the time comes to get the next one.
The fourth stage of personal growth
The period of being on the surface, at the external level, becomes longer and filled with good mood, positive energy. A person even begins to think that this is all, he is awakened, he has received his sight, everything is over. Alas ... it has just begun.
The study of a deeper inner layer of your personality will begin.
Immersions into your inner world will now be slower and deeper.
Exactly to the extent that you are ready for this meeting with yourself.
