Simple rules for carder success

[Brother]

Each self-respecting resource shares its own rules of success. We are also no exception, we have collected six rules and tried to reveal the potential of each in as much detail as possible. Some of the rules will seem familiar to you, while others are completely bored with you, because you read about them every day. However, the irony is that usually the simplest and most obvious things are brought to success. And for many people, the obvious is synonymous with mediocrity.

If you've read How to Make Friends by Dale Carnegie, you've probably noticed the simplicity of its rules. Ask any person and he will most likely say that he has known all this for a long time. But is he sticking to these obvious rules? Therefore, it is so important to pay conscious attention to simple tips and rules, because they really work.

There are hundreds of roads to success. If you read the biographies of famous people, you probably noticed that there is no single correct action that will lead a person to success. However, if you've ever seen a successful person in real life, you've probably noticed how different he is from those with whom you usually deal. Why is that? Everyone has their own set of rules. And since not every person is successful, it is important to understand what needs to be done and what not needs to be done in order to achieve your goals. We will focus on both aspects.

Don't listen to critics​

Of course, we do not mean a situation where you decide to get involved in crime. This rule implies a complete disregard for non-constructive criticism, which in fact is just a statement or opinion. Examples:

• "It's impossible"
• "You can't write, so you won't become a writer."
• “You don’t understand how difficult it is”

This criticism is unconstructive because it is presented in general phrases, excludes the likelihood of success and simply demotivates the person. Therefore, listen to constructive criticism, and respond to such words calmly and with a smile.

The very word “impossible” is very vague and has an extremely negative effect on motivation. There is so much unexplored in the world that it can be uttered only on very rare occasions. Work further, listen to advice, dispel the darkness in front of you and soon you yourself will understand that impossible things almost do not exist.

Make decisions and act every day​

If you have been reading 4Brain for a long time, you probably know our attitude to skills and habits - everything can be learned and any form of behavior eventually becomes familiar to a person. Making decisions and wanting to act is also a habit, which is why we insist on daily practice. If you miss a day or two, you will be immediately attacked by laziness and procrastination, which means that everything will have to start over.

Decisions are important, because without them there will be no action, and if there are, then their main difference will be crumpledness and uncertainty. A decision is not only a clarification of the goal, but also a clear understanding of how to achieve it. However, decisions alone will not go far, you need to accustom yourself, ideally, so that 100% of decisions turn into actions.

Define your mission​

If the word "mission" sounds too grandiose for you, replace it with "main goal". Why is it so important to have your own mission in life? Because even if you are not moving towards your main goal directly, you can go to it in an indirect way. For example, if you decide you want to help people get better, but you cannot do it this week (you are sick or under house arrest), then you could read some books on self-development. In this case, you are not directly fulfilling your mission to help people, but you become a little better, which means you can help people more effectively. In this sense, almost every action you take is subordinate to your main mission. You can go for a healthy diet or a healthy lifestyle, because helping people means being strong yourself.

Imagine your life without the main mission - in it only some of the actions have at least some meaning. In the life of a person who has a higher goal, almost every decision and action is subject to a mission, which means it is meaningful and leads to positive changes and success. And all this develops one of the most important human qualities - concentration.

See doubts in the face​

How many times a day does a person doubt themselves, other or external circumstances? Dozens, maybe hundreds of times.

• Will I succeed?
• Will I succeed?
• Will these people fail me?
• Will there be another financial crisis that will ruin all my plans?

Doubt can kill any undertaking and even the strongest motivation. Maybe not right away, but they will eventually do their dirty deed. And the worst thing that a person can do in this situation is to avoid conscious thoughts about their doubts. Do not be afraid, at the first doubt, catch this thought and consider it in more detail. Form it clearly, decompose it into its components and methodically destroy it. Doubt is directly related to insecurity, so it disappears by repeating simple affirmations. Will you succeed? Why not, because millions of people who did not have your intelligence have achieved even more. Almost any modern person has all the conditions to achieve great success.

By the way, a sign of a good doubt - it is compiled in your head in an interrogative form. Such doubts are good because they are like indicators that tell you that your batteries of confidence are about to run out. Therefore, before it's too late and you are not covered with apathy and helplessness, charge your confidence. Otherwise, your doubts will change their interrogative form and become affirmative.

Set boundaries​

This is a tip from almost every time management textbook. Decide for yourself how many minutes or hours you can allocate for a specific task (a business meeting, chatting with friends, going to a cafe) and stick to these boundaries. However, this rule has two major drawbacks. First, people may think that you are showing your arrogance in this way and generally behave like a robot. Second, a meeting with friends can be so enjoyable that it will not be right to end and limit it to a time frame. Therefore, decide for yourself in which case you need to strictly adhere to the framework, and where you can act more flexibly and change plans on the fly.

If, at the meeting itself, you realized that it will drag on for some more time, make a responsible decision: you are taking the time for what business. At worst, you can donate time to your projects, at best, for entertainment. Remember that the problem is not that you spent more time than you planned on a pleasant meeting, but that you realize that you are wasting your time on something else. Be responsible for your time, because this is one of the few things that we can fully manage.

Be generous​

We don't just mean money. After all, what is generosity? It is the ability to give something to other people for free. It can be your time (we talked about this - in this case, take full responsibility for yourself), your love, attention, mentoring, caring, forgiveness, understanding, energy. It sounds like you give more than you receive, so how can this lead to success?

People love generous people, and not just because they give them more than other people. Generous people are attractive. This does not mean that they give everything and constantly suffer from this personal quality. In everything you need to know when to stop. By generosity, we even mean gratitude to other people. For example, write or say "thank you" and add a few words. This is also a form of generosity.

Generous people have two important characteristics: they give sincerely and do not expect gratitude. You cannot be generous and expect people to appreciate your efforts. However, if you do everything sincerely, you will have no competitors. Being generous is beneficial from all points of view: karma, psychology, philosophy, religion, and success.

Apply these rules in your life and after a short period of time you will understand that they work. Remember that these rules are habits, so cultivate and apply them every day. We wish you good luck!