Hypnotic Compliment Technique

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Sometimes, with some surprise, you discover that you want to tell some very attractive person that she is very attractive, but you realize that you cannot do this. For some strange and mysterious reasons. You feel like a kind of Pinocchio, whose dad Carlo forgot to cut his mouth through, or you begin to suspect that you have a specific paralysis of the lingual muscles. Or, in a special way, you understand fish that open their mouths and close, open and close, but do not make sounds at the same time. Well, if you can say something, then these sounds are clearly not relevant, but something necessarily about the weather and the political situation in the North Caucasus.

And what to do in such cases? How to trick unlucky awkwardness and insecurity? Doubts and concerns are understandable - what if my sincere and heartfelt reply, my compliment and my secret words will be perceived somehow differently and interpreted ambiguously, or unambiguously, but vice versa? It is absolutely impossible to allow this to happen! Therefore, the task seems to be the most difficult: to cope with your own uncertainty and indecision, and to be able to say so that a nice person understands it in the very sense that you wanted to put into your words. And so that your words would resonate in him with understanding, warmth and pleasantness. After all, - you must agree, - it is always pleasant when they tell you that you are the most and the most plus-sign person in the world!

Of course, for all your doubts and worries - how to say kind words to another person, how to express your admiration for him, how to confess your love, in the end - all this can start a long conversation about how important it is to raise your own self-esteem, be confident in yourself and your strengths, be decisive and courageous. Of course you can start. Or you don't have to start. And generally keep quiet on this topic. Because if you are a person with high self-esteem, brave, brave, decisive, charming, with dignity and self-confidence, then your tongue is suspended and feels great, and the right words are found, and there is enough charm. And one might even assume that other people are more concerned about the problems - how to say how good you are and how pleasant it is to see you. who surround such a worthy member of society and write compliments and the necessary words on paper so as not to get lost and not make mistakes. So I prefer not to start talking about improving your self-esteem - if only because you can improve it for a long time, and measuring how much it has increased is not so easy. Yes, and you want to confess your secret feelings now, and not in six months, right?

And since decisive measures are needed when situations are indecisive, then we need some kind of salutary recipe for speedy learning the art of complimenting. And we have such recipes. Recipes that will allow you to quickly learn to speak the person you are interested in the most fantastic words that you did not dare to think about. And all these your words will be perceived extremely positively. Moreover: you will be able to say everything you wanted - and you will never hear in response something like: "I'm sorry, but I have another", or there: "We can only be friends" ... With the help of these recipes, you say whatever you want - easy, free and open. With complete confidence that it will be accepted, and that your words will be a balm and delicious medicine.

Do you think this is impossible? As much as possible! It is so possible that there will be no limit to your possibilities. We say whatever. We say what we want. We say what our beating of hearts and movements of the soul prompts us to do. But - in special secret ways. And now I will tell you what these methods are, how to use them and why they work flawlessly.

How do you do it ?!Let's start simple. You see this technique one hundred percent often in advertising. Its meaning boils down to the fact that a person is asked a question - how does he manage to always be the way he is? For example, one ad girl says to another ad girl - listen, you are so good at cooking - share your secret! To which the girl, who has just been given such a compliment, explains that the whole point is in some kind of saucepan or special sauces. In advertising, this is correct, because if the secret is in the person himself, then you do not need to buy either a saucepan or sauces. But in life, it is advisable to correlate the secret directly with the person himself, and let him begin to "justify" for all his wonderful qualities. Let her explain why she is so wonderful! You are in a winning position since you replaced a narrative compliment with an interrogative one, and a sincere attitude - with a sincere interest. Very often this is an advantageous position not only for you, but also for the person to whom you are saying this, because it is also quite difficult to react to frontal compliments. And a person can succeed in anything - to look good, dress stylishly, dance well, skillfully perform the set work, be charming and attractive, and so on and so forth.

I need your advice . This is a good way to attract a handsome man to your side. Men swell with pride when they are recognized as competent in any matter, or emphasize their special mind and understanding of life. Ask him for advice: what to do in some difficult situation for you? The situation can be imagined, it is not necessary to offer the real one. Explain to him in the context of the conversation why you chose him and why you turned to him for advice. And with the help of such a distraction, you can tell him everything that your heart desires. "Misha (Vanya, Dima, Andrey), as the smartest one, you will certainly help me figure out one issue, and I think that no one can do it better than you, - so I need your advice, your experience and your skill correctly look at things ... "

How are you?A great reason to tell a person what you think of him without doing it straightforwardly is to include him in the system of some valuable experiences for you that create a mood for you and fill your heart with the energy of the day. "Everything is fine, the mood is excellent, the sun is shining, spring is coming, it is warm, you look good, I am very glad to see you, I feel great, everything is just great!" This is a very funny technique, similar to a roller coaster. There is another version of it - more complicated, but also more effective. In it, you invite your interlocutor to become a full-fledged participant in observing the world around you, which causes your admiration and delight. And to the question: "How are you?" you can answer something like this: "Oh-oh-oh, my affairs look excellent, - look,

Love quotes technique... Telling the action of a film, retelling a book or just an entertaining story, you can slightly change the form of your narration and talk about the heroes of this story or action not in the third person, as is customary (". .. and then he tells her that she is beautiful, she the best, and he loves her very much ... "), and in the second:" And then he says to her: you are beautiful, you are the best, and I love you very much ... ", thus weaving into your story the most intricate compliments in such a disguised form. The thing is that our subconscious (as opposed to consciousness) perceives such a text literally, and absolutely nothing can be done about it! In text form, it certainly won't work, but when you retell some story out loud, the technique will work! Of course, this does not mean that a person to whom you tell a similar story, he will immediately respond to you with a reciprocal feeling and throw himself on his neck. But this means that now you can tell a person what you want to say to him, be sure that he will definitely hear it, and know that his (her) subconscious mind will definitely take it personally.

What's in a name?Well, this technique is already pure hypnosis. Do you want to become a little bit hypnotists? Before you tell someone something important, call him by name! When a person hears his name, his attention to what you say increases several times! And if we combine this with the technique "How are you?", We get the following text: "Oh-oh-oh, my affairs look excellent, - look, the sun is shining, the sky is clear, warm and comfortable, here is Natasha (Lena, Marina, Julia) looks great - just the eye is happy, and the air is fresh, and the mood is good, and I want to do something useful and interesting, but what are your plans for today?! .. "Pay attention to the paradox - we are talking about a person, whom we look into the eyes, as if we were talking to a three-year-old child. "Vanya is the most beautiful,

Let me tell you that I will never say that! A fun way to tell someone what you want to say to them and then emphasize that you didn't. This technique, by the way, was actively used by Kashpirovsky in his massive hypnosis sessions. "And I will not talk about relaxing, and that your breathing becomes even, and your body relaxes, and you plunge more and more into a trance. And I will not talk about it now. I will not talk further.". This is roughly what our well-known hypnotist used to say. And the results of this are known to you for certain. Accordingly, you can try and practice in exactly the same way: "Of course, I really want to tell you that I like you, and I am very glad to see you, but I am so timid and indecisive that I cannot utter a single word. "

Just imagine the situation: a psychologist is sitting in his psychological chair, and opposite him is a patient, and the psychologist really likes the patient, but he is at work and he is not recommended to have feelings besides scientific and professional for his patients, so he says something like the following:

"... You know - don't get me wrong - I have no right to say this and I cannot say that I sincerely admire you and that you are the most beautiful person I have ever met on white You are the most beautiful, charming, delightful and wonderful woman, and I am happy that I have the opportunity to be next to you and hear you, and look at you, and think to myself all that I can't say out loud, all these words, all my sensations, all the warmth and happiness that I feel and that fills my heart. And I tell you this because I am aware of my responsibility and want to tell you that I cannot say this, and I cannot say all this right now, no matter how much and desperately I wanted it ... "

I realize that the methods I have given are actually not always simple and frivolous, they require some thoughtfulness of words and want you to remember - life is a lot like a game and when we play, then we learn quite serious things and can make responsible decisions. How much can a child learn who does not play games, and does not experience admiration and delight from the very process of the game?! And no one can reproach him for being engaged in a frivolous business, because play is the most serious and responsible thing in our life. And if you realize that you are playing, if you understand that you are playing, and if you know why you are playing and what goal you are striving for, then everything will work out for you, everything will be fine for you and you can achieve the most wonderful results! So play to your health!