How to become a cunning carder

[Hacker]

Cunning as a personality trait is the ability to conceal one's secret intention by manipulating real information about the actual state of facts and circumstances.

Part 1

Be insightful

1. Always look for more information.
2. Identify other people's motives.
3. Pay attention to small details.
4. Be on your guard. A person cannot be cunning if they are tired, distracted, or distracted. For a cunning person, it is very important to always stay active and keep your eyes open. To a greater extent, this means always maintaining normal biological needs.
5. Always keep a cool head. Smart people do not allow their emotions and prejudices to interfere with the decision-making process. Instead, they are guided by the bare facts.
6. Pay attention to the strengths and weaknesses of others. This step is very important. The weapons of cunning people are deception and tricks. It's much easier to fool a person if you know their weaknesses and strengths. It's especially helpful to know your weaknesses. They can encourage a person to make hasty decisions that will be beneficial to you. Similarly, you should avoid the person's strengths whenever possible, otherwise they may fool you.

Example: Let's say you want to persuade a friend to make a donation at a charity event you're hosting. You know that your friend is quite stubborn, but at the same time, you also know that your friend has a sweet tooth. Prepare or buy sweets and, as if by chance, invite a friend to visit. Let him eat as much as he wants. Then offer to donate money. Most likely, he will agree, so as not to seem rude after your hospitality.

Part 2

Self-development

1. Practice, practice, practice. If you're born devious and ruthless, you're probably a psychopath. Like any other quality, cunning is something that people work on. Some are naturally more cunning, while others are more trusting. Cunning qualities can always be improved with practice. Try to find a few minor situations in which you can hone your skills before moving on to something serious. Banter is a good way to develop cunning without putting yourself at great risk.
2. Never take anything at face value. Sly people are skeptics to the core. Never rely on first impressions and always think carefully about information. Never underestimate people. Look for reasons why people might be hiding the truth or intentionally telling lies for their own benefit.
3. Calculate all possible results. British Prime Minister Winston Churchill, among other things, stood out for his cunning. He had a reputation for being smart and resourceful, famous for his sarcastic statements and ability to make unexpected jokes. In fact, before giving a speech or speaking in public, he carefully considered the possible course of events and tried to predict in advance what he should expect. Take Churchill as an example. In each situation, try to anticipate each possible path and develop tactics in accordance with each of them.
4. Learn from your mistakes. Even the greatest scammers were sometimes caught. If you learn, you can't avoid mistakes. Intrigues can be revealed, you will be ashamed and you will have to apologize. Use these failures as a contribution to your future experience. Notice exactly when and how your plan went wrong. Try not to repeat these mistakes in the future.
5. Study yourself. French theologian Pierre Sharon once said "The easiest way to deceive someone is to believe that you are more cunning than everyone else”. A cunning person should certainly be able to calculate the strengths and weaknesses of others, but they should also know their vulnerabilities, as well as their strengths. Evaluate yourself very honestly. What are your strengths? What's wrong? What makes you nervous? What makes you confident? Be honest with yourself about your abilities. This is the only way to find out what you can play and what you can work on.

Part 3

Deception, misleading

1. Learn to make an impenetrable face. A cunning person not only needs to be able to read the faces of others, but they also need to be able to hide their emotions.
2. Be persuasive and confident. People have more faith in confident people. If you are a cunning person, you must develop confidence. Your movements should be calm and clear. Try to convince yourself that this deception is just a small thing or that it is so easy that you don't even have to make an effort (even if it isn't). If you believe that you can do something, you can deceive others.
3. Learn to lie. A good lie inspires confidence, or at least is difficult to challenge. To learn how to lie well, you need to develop intelligence and be able to control your emotions. Lies are conveyed not only in words, but also in body language and voice. Life hack: if a person believes in their own lies, it is harder to catch them, and they gain confidence and behave as if it really is. At the same time, he remains calm and relaxed outwardly.
4. Set up "traps". Someone once said that the trick is to "find the path that the enemy has chosen and dig holes along this road”. These words are worth remembering, but also do not forget. That plotting against other people is extremely bad. By studying your opponent's strengths, weaknesses, and motivations, you can determine what position they are holding and take advantage of it. Put pressure on vulnerable areas. Try to create a situation in which the enemy gets confused and makes blunders.
5. Don't draw attention to yourself. A sly person never draws attention to himself if it is not necessary. Communicate with people as usual, without any oddities. If you see that someone has fallen for your bait – do not put too much pressure on the person, otherwise he will understand that he is being "bred”. Of course, it's hard to resist the urge to gloat when you've successfully outsmarted a person, but you shouldn't. You will only show a sense of superiority and make an enemy of yourself in the future.
6. You should always have an emergency exit. There is always a chance that your cunning will play against you. Think ahead about what you will need to do to correct the situation.