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This article has a strange title, isn't it? Who is pleased to experience disappointment, like any other negative feeling. Disappointed in anything or someone, we understand that life in this place did not live up to our expectations, our plans were violated and, as we wanted and dreamed, it will no longer be.
We can be disappointed in work, in people, in things, in parents and children, etc. It turns out that you can be disappointed in anything. Usually one disappointment doesn't come. It is often accompanied by sadness or anger, sadness or despair, resentment or hatred. Thus, at the point of disappointment, not one, but many different and very unpleasant feelings are concentrated.
How your disappointment is colored and how to deal with it, you can find out in the psychologist's office. A good specialist will definitely ask you to linger on this feeling, will give you the opportunity to experience it and recognize the inner meaning of experiences. Believe me, everyone will have their own, this inner meaning.
Despite all the bitterness of this experience, it is important to see the positive that it carries in itself. Disappointment helps us to separate "mine" and "not mine" from all the diversity of the world. Agree that it is very important to be able to identify what does not suit you. For example, in food, you can definitely identify an unloved taste and will not eat it. Disappointment is like a disliked taste of food that signals that it is not worth eating anymore.
Disappointment indicates that reality does not coincide with the image that has arisen within you, that you have relied too much on this image. It's time to get rid of illusions. This usually painful release can be helped by therapy. One meeting is not enough to experience disappointment. A series of meetings is needed, at which the inner gathering of oneself takes place in pieces, because the subject of disappointment occupied some part of your life and now this place is empty and filled with pain. Learning to live with loss, to feel that you can continue to live, to feel whole again - all this is real, achievable and happens many times faster next to a competent specialist.
After experiencing disappointment and looking back, few would like to return everything to its place. Any event in our life is not accidental, but the advantages of a difficult one are discovered only after a lapse of time. Just as sometimes we laughingly tell our friends about the times when we were scared, so after disappointment we can say "thank you" to life for this. Thank you for being disappointed at all. This gives us a chance to find in life what suits us best.
We can be disappointed in work, in people, in things, in parents and children, etc. It turns out that you can be disappointed in anything. Usually one disappointment doesn't come. It is often accompanied by sadness or anger, sadness or despair, resentment or hatred. Thus, at the point of disappointment, not one, but many different and very unpleasant feelings are concentrated.
How your disappointment is colored and how to deal with it, you can find out in the psychologist's office. A good specialist will definitely ask you to linger on this feeling, will give you the opportunity to experience it and recognize the inner meaning of experiences. Believe me, everyone will have their own, this inner meaning.
Despite all the bitterness of this experience, it is important to see the positive that it carries in itself. Disappointment helps us to separate "mine" and "not mine" from all the diversity of the world. Agree that it is very important to be able to identify what does not suit you. For example, in food, you can definitely identify an unloved taste and will not eat it. Disappointment is like a disliked taste of food that signals that it is not worth eating anymore.
Disappointment indicates that reality does not coincide with the image that has arisen within you, that you have relied too much on this image. It's time to get rid of illusions. This usually painful release can be helped by therapy. One meeting is not enough to experience disappointment. A series of meetings is needed, at which the inner gathering of oneself takes place in pieces, because the subject of disappointment occupied some part of your life and now this place is empty and filled with pain. Learning to live with loss, to feel that you can continue to live, to feel whole again - all this is real, achievable and happens many times faster next to a competent specialist.
After experiencing disappointment and looking back, few would like to return everything to its place. Any event in our life is not accidental, but the advantages of a difficult one are discovered only after a lapse of time. Just as sometimes we laughingly tell our friends about the times when we were scared, so after disappointment we can say "thank you" to life for this. Thank you for being disappointed at all. This gives us a chance to find in life what suits us best.
