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One of the most important rules for building harmonious relationships is the law of mental response, which states that you need to always feel like a soul before you freak out. This simple practice is worth applying to many aspects of your life because it brings you back to the right state.
You just remember that you are a spiritual structure that is in the body. You have a clear feeling and understanding that you are now going through an experience of deep spiritual transformation.
In this state, the realization comes to you that now there is no point in yelling back. They raised their voice at you - you do not need to raise it in response. You can just ask the person not to yell. If he continues to raise his voice, then proceed at your own discretion based on educational goals.
Understand the structure of spiritual acceptance of information. Let's say they shout at you, condemn, insult, humiliate, show some aggression towards you. You understand that now there may be some kind of breakdown, and you create a spiritual shell around you, thanks to which you stop reacting with anger to anger and start working at the level of accepting this information.
If you are trying to resist, fight, fight, defend your position and prove your case, then this is the wrong reaction. Any phrase in response is always a defense. But if you keep quiet for a minute, try to absorb this information and then give an intelligible answer, then this will be spiritual acceptance. It allows the person with whom you are in conflict to realize where he is wrong.
The person who starts yelling at you will never realize that he is wrong if you start yelling at him in response. He will not be able to feel and understand it.
If a person said something to you and you suddenly just accepted it, this does not mean that he will think that he won and that he is the coolest. He will make work on the mistakes and understand that, perhaps, in some way, he has now overstepped the situation too much. There is no need to get offended, slam the door and run away from the phrase this person said. There should not be such a condemning moment, because it is wrong and not very conscious.
You just remember that you are a spiritual structure that is in the body. You have a clear feeling and understanding that you are now going through an experience of deep spiritual transformation.
In this state, the realization comes to you that now there is no point in yelling back. They raised their voice at you - you do not need to raise it in response. You can just ask the person not to yell. If he continues to raise his voice, then proceed at your own discretion based on educational goals.
Understand the structure of spiritual acceptance of information. Let's say they shout at you, condemn, insult, humiliate, show some aggression towards you. You understand that now there may be some kind of breakdown, and you create a spiritual shell around you, thanks to which you stop reacting with anger to anger and start working at the level of accepting this information.
If you are trying to resist, fight, fight, defend your position and prove your case, then this is the wrong reaction. Any phrase in response is always a defense. But if you keep quiet for a minute, try to absorb this information and then give an intelligible answer, then this will be spiritual acceptance. It allows the person with whom you are in conflict to realize where he is wrong.
The person who starts yelling at you will never realize that he is wrong if you start yelling at him in response. He will not be able to feel and understand it.
If a person said something to you and you suddenly just accepted it, this does not mean that he will think that he won and that he is the coolest. He will make work on the mistakes and understand that, perhaps, in some way, he has now overstepped the situation too much. There is no need to get offended, slam the door and run away from the phrase this person said. There should not be such a condemning moment, because it is wrong and not very conscious.
