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Here is an interesting article for you to influence others.
Further from the author's words:
1. The need for awareness
First of all, you need to accept the fact that no matter what position you occupy, you have an impact on the lives of those around you. Often we are not even aware of how we directly or indirectly affect others. But it is very important to understand what we are doing and choose the appropriate behavior.
2. Be principled and persistent
Let the person you think you are manifest in your every action. Don't contradict yourself. Don't take the easy way out. Create your image in the eyes of others and become an example for them. Your actions are determined by your aspirations, and your influence is determined by your actions.
3. Be sincere and open
No need to play in public. Be real. Be honest. This creates trust, and trust increases influence.
4. Take responsibility
Don't make excuses. If you made a mistake, then immediately admit your guilt. Being a leader doesn't mean being perfect. Learn from mistakes and lead others forward.
5. Look for solutions to problems
Don't sit back and complain about your problems. Instead, try to solve them. Those who can solve problems look attractive in the eyes of others. If you become such a person, you can gain credibility – because you will open up new prospects.
6. Be proactive
You don't have to sit back and wait for someone to take over. Take action if you want to have a positive impact on events. Become someone who offers new ideas, takes risks and leads to the desired future.
7. Put yourself in the position of others
Take the time to understand other people's feelings. What drives them to do this? What's bothering them? They won't pay attention to your ideas until you pay attention to them. But... you must be sincere. You should be really interested. People are more important than numbers.
8. Appreciate others and don't hide it
A simple "thank you" can do wonders, especially if it was said in front of strangers. Notice the efforts of others, use them as a shining example for everyone to see. By doing this, you influence the actions of others, indicating which actions are right and correct. We all want to be appreciated and praised.
9. How to respond?
People notice everything. You may not always be in control of what is happening, but you can control your reaction to it. And your reaction is seen by others. Do not give in to emotions, calm down, think about what is happening. Don't forget about the results of your behavior.
10. Look for the good in others
It may seem strange, but in order not to fall into selfishness and manipulation, you should use your influence for the benefit of others more than for yourself. Help those who follow you. Let your influence serve to bring out something good in others. You can see in them a potential that they themselves can't see. Help them uncover it.
11. Follow the Golden Rule
Do to others as you would like others to do to you. Do not think that these are just beautiful words. Bring them to life. If you want to be treated well, first give others your good attitude. If you want to be respected, respect others. Set an example and it will come back to you.
12. Learn to give back
Don't be afraid to share what you know and can do. Share with others, help others. Let others count on you to share your knowledge. Give easily, give often. Be the first
Further from the author's words:
1. The need for awareness
First of all, you need to accept the fact that no matter what position you occupy, you have an impact on the lives of those around you. Often we are not even aware of how we directly or indirectly affect others. But it is very important to understand what we are doing and choose the appropriate behavior.
2. Be principled and persistent
Let the person you think you are manifest in your every action. Don't contradict yourself. Don't take the easy way out. Create your image in the eyes of others and become an example for them. Your actions are determined by your aspirations, and your influence is determined by your actions.
3. Be sincere and open
No need to play in public. Be real. Be honest. This creates trust, and trust increases influence.
4. Take responsibility
Don't make excuses. If you made a mistake, then immediately admit your guilt. Being a leader doesn't mean being perfect. Learn from mistakes and lead others forward.
5. Look for solutions to problems
Don't sit back and complain about your problems. Instead, try to solve them. Those who can solve problems look attractive in the eyes of others. If you become such a person, you can gain credibility – because you will open up new prospects.
6. Be proactive
You don't have to sit back and wait for someone to take over. Take action if you want to have a positive impact on events. Become someone who offers new ideas, takes risks and leads to the desired future.
7. Put yourself in the position of others
Take the time to understand other people's feelings. What drives them to do this? What's bothering them? They won't pay attention to your ideas until you pay attention to them. But... you must be sincere. You should be really interested. People are more important than numbers.
8. Appreciate others and don't hide it
A simple "thank you" can do wonders, especially if it was said in front of strangers. Notice the efforts of others, use them as a shining example for everyone to see. By doing this, you influence the actions of others, indicating which actions are right and correct. We all want to be appreciated and praised.
9. How to respond?
People notice everything. You may not always be in control of what is happening, but you can control your reaction to it. And your reaction is seen by others. Do not give in to emotions, calm down, think about what is happening. Don't forget about the results of your behavior.
10. Look for the good in others
It may seem strange, but in order not to fall into selfishness and manipulation, you should use your influence for the benefit of others more than for yourself. Help those who follow you. Let your influence serve to bring out something good in others. You can see in them a potential that they themselves can't see. Help them uncover it.
11. Follow the Golden Rule
Do to others as you would like others to do to you. Do not think that these are just beautiful words. Bring them to life. If you want to be treated well, first give others your good attitude. If you want to be respected, respect others. Set an example and it will come back to you.
12. Learn to give back
Don't be afraid to share what you know and can do. Share with others, help others. Let others count on you to share your knowledge. Give easily, give often. Be the first
