Lord777
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No, not because a weakling or a fool. Let's dig into the essence. What is responsibility? This is a choice: I do this, and this is not. I will react to such a situation in this way, and to such a situation in this way.
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So, in order for us to succeed in doing exactly so that our life is a chain of our decisions, we need the main factors:
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• Understand your real needs
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Imagine that you have a couple of months left to live and you are not bound by any obligations. What would you like to do during this period? The answer "finally lie down to watch TV shows around the clock, overeating burgers and ice cream" will not work. The trick here is to realize what you want in your current reality, without fear for the future and without hesitation on the topic "what people will say."
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• Analyze the conditions in which you are now (people around, your activities, skills) and how you can fulfill your real needs here.
The answer "in any way" is not accepted - kamon, we live in an era when any information is available at the click of a mouse. Play around with different options in your head - what and how you can learn, how to manage your time, what to start and what to stop doing.
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• Choose the most suitable of the options and begin to act towards its implementation.
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Only in this way, in such a sequence, will you come to the realization that the word "responsibility" does not cause vague anxiety in you, but the understanding that everything is really in your hands.
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So, in order for us to succeed in doing exactly so that our life is a chain of our decisions, we need the main factors:
⠀
• Understand your real needs
⠀
Imagine that you have a couple of months left to live and you are not bound by any obligations. What would you like to do during this period? The answer "finally lie down to watch TV shows around the clock, overeating burgers and ice cream" will not work. The trick here is to realize what you want in your current reality, without fear for the future and without hesitation on the topic "what people will say."
⠀
• Analyze the conditions in which you are now (people around, your activities, skills) and how you can fulfill your real needs here.
The answer "in any way" is not accepted - kamon, we live in an era when any information is available at the click of a mouse. Play around with different options in your head - what and how you can learn, how to manage your time, what to start and what to stop doing.
⠀
• Choose the most suitable of the options and begin to act towards its implementation.
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Only in this way, in such a sequence, will you come to the realization that the word "responsibility" does not cause vague anxiety in you, but the understanding that everything is really in your hands.
