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Here are some tips for improving your life through kinesthetics. Kinesthetics (sensations from our body) is one of the most slowly changing representational systems. If you feel a "stone" in your chest, then quickly getting rid of this sensation is not easy. The actions described below will reduce negative inner experiences and bring you a lot of pleasant moments in life.
1. Fix positive internal sensations in the body: when we see or feel something pleasant, stop for a moment, pay attention to your body, where this pleasant sensation is, and leave your attention there for a while. For example, you are walking down the street and noticed the beauty of the snow lying on the trees - at this moment you need to transfer your attention to the body, where there are pleasant sensations from this species, what they are in size and intensity.
The fact is that our body is "sharpened" to feel more and react to negative signals from the external environment - this is how nature has it. People, thanks to consciousness, can reverse this law and begin to feel more positive sensations and feelings.
2. Search for a way to disappear negative feelings. All sensations in our body change, disappear and reappear. However, there are negative feelings that arise over and over again. For example, communicating with a colleague or employee is annoying, or even infuriating. At the same time, you experience with a certain frequency the whole "bouquet" of negative sensations in the body, not only during, but also after communication.
Begin to closely observe these sensations (devote some time to this) and track how these sensations change over time and, most importantly, notice the moment of their sharp weakening or disappearance. Remember what happened to the sensations just before they disappeared: how they changed, where they moved and through what point they left the body.
The rest is simple: as soon as you feel the same negative feelings the next time, just change them as if they will disappear now. Do this several times and you will feel how the "stone" in the chest disappears very quickly.
3. The next, more "advanced" habit is to develop the ability to loop positive feelings in the body. We already know that a sensation begins from somewhere, then certain metamorphoses occur with it, and then it ends somewhere. The positive sensation that arises in the body from the beauty of nature will also end and "go somewhere." So, when we firmly "hold" a positive feeling with our attention, we can instead of it heading towards the "exit", lasso it and direct it to walk around the body in some circle.
For example, a pleasant feeling from admiring nature arises in the center of the chest, then expands to the entire chest, passes into the hands and disappears there. Instead of disappearing, you can direct this feeling after expansion, instead of hands, again to the center of the chest, from where it can begin to expand again. And so this cycle can be repeated almost endlessly.
By using these simple ways of working with sensations in your daily life, you will significantly increase the amount of positive and delightful feeling of life in your life.