Lord777
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1. If you are silent, you will not become the soul of the company. Practice taking the initiative. Yes, the first time is inconvenient, but progress follows. Dampen the ego that doesn't want to feel uncomfortable and get started.
2. Self-confidence. Feeling confident is a personal choice, not a gift. If it's difficult to decide on this, try to play the role of a standard of confidence in your head - Schwarzenegger from Terminator, for example. Not knowing how to behave in a given situation, imagine how he would behave. Repeat the result.
3. Tame the fear of the mind. The only reason you are afraid to speak is fear that you will say nonsense, or that they will not understand you, and as a result, everyone will turn away from you. However, these are just thoughts that must be overcome by action. Even if you say nonsense, you will be understood and supported in your endeavor.
4. Practice, practice and more practice. Overcome unsuccessful attempts to start a conversation and discover ways that work. You won't be able to find them without practice. The more failures you experience in the beginning, the more successes and benefits from the interaction you reap later.
5. Smile. Even if the smile is unpleasant to you, make your grimace twist into something positive. Those who smile are more attentive and benevolent. Take advantage of this.
6. Listen actively. Don't just try to talk incessantly. Be polite and considerate of what the other person says. Get really interested in this topic. Penetrate, understand and then interrupt. Better, of course, not to interrupt at all.
7. Practice even more. Yes, we have already written about this, but we will note it again. Practice is the most disgusting thing, because your psychological comfort is disturbed. However, it is the most effective component, as it gives you experience and knowledge.
Practice every day. You can even with strangers. Only practice will turn you into a mediocre communicator. No smile, no money, no status, but only the experience of effective interaction. The faster you accumulate it, the better.
2. Self-confidence. Feeling confident is a personal choice, not a gift. If it's difficult to decide on this, try to play the role of a standard of confidence in your head - Schwarzenegger from Terminator, for example. Not knowing how to behave in a given situation, imagine how he would behave. Repeat the result.
3. Tame the fear of the mind. The only reason you are afraid to speak is fear that you will say nonsense, or that they will not understand you, and as a result, everyone will turn away from you. However, these are just thoughts that must be overcome by action. Even if you say nonsense, you will be understood and supported in your endeavor.
4. Practice, practice and more practice. Overcome unsuccessful attempts to start a conversation and discover ways that work. You won't be able to find them without practice. The more failures you experience in the beginning, the more successes and benefits from the interaction you reap later.
5. Smile. Even if the smile is unpleasant to you, make your grimace twist into something positive. Those who smile are more attentive and benevolent. Take advantage of this.
6. Listen actively. Don't just try to talk incessantly. Be polite and considerate of what the other person says. Get really interested in this topic. Penetrate, understand and then interrupt. Better, of course, not to interrupt at all.
7. Practice even more. Yes, we have already written about this, but we will note it again. Practice is the most disgusting thing, because your psychological comfort is disturbed. However, it is the most effective component, as it gives you experience and knowledge.
Practice every day. You can even with strangers. Only practice will turn you into a mediocre communicator. No smile, no money, no status, but only the experience of effective interaction. The faster you accumulate it, the better.
