There is such a presupposition in NLP. Let us assume that this is so. The man wanted to get rich, created a business, lost money. You can call yourself a defeatist, regret, suffer, blame everyone, get sick. And if you believe what NLP says, well, at least admit it. This is not a defeat, but a good lesson, what does it teach?
1. At least I now know what not to do. I will not repeat any more mistakes. Already good, however, the lesson was expensive, but very memorable. Life is a good teacher, and all good things are not cheap. What do you want?
2. How was it necessary? Here's an interesting question. The answer will provide many opportunities for future business. After all, we learn from mistakes, it is better, of course, from the mistakes of other people, but if the opportunity presents itself, then from our own too.
3. Experience has appeared, it can be passed on to others, you can keep it for yourself. But they will listen to you when you tell the person who can repeat the mistake how not to do it, you are already an expert in this matter, you have experience. Well, if you tell me how to do it, you will be a godsend for the interested person, save him money, maybe he will say thanks, or even share.
4. Having accepted this assumption of NLP, you can stop worrying, save a lot of energy, which will be useful for creating a new one, and not regretting the old. Remembering the past, rest assured that the best is, of course, to come.
5. Maybe the feedback from life is a hint - do something else. As they say, if the first time did not work out, then parachuting is not for you.
6. Or, do the same, but in a different way. After all, for example, the path to the house can be different, longer, shorter, on foot, by car, or by bus. Choose a short one if you want to get home faster. Also in business, if at first you went the long and wrong way, got lost, now you will choose the most optimal one.
7. Be proud of yourself. Make a mistake, find the strength to fix everything. You can, of course, worry and do nothing, but if you understand how to act differently, what prospects are opening up, what is the waste of time. Rejoice in yourself, you are not one of those who give up, you are one of those who go ahead and get what they want.
8. Remember the great scientists who discovered the laws and went down in history. They did not consider mistakes as a defeat. Why are you worse? Join the greats!
9. Fighting with the circumstances is unproductive. What happened is gone. Experience and knowledge have been gained, will they just disappear like that? This is not a defeat, it is a stop half way, it is necessary to look around, think, move on.
10. There is no defeat, this is a new introduction in life. Call! When all is well, everyone can be successful. And when is it difficult? Only a select few can cope! So choose yourself! Circumstances have changed, they have not changed you. You can be successful!
And the last thing. There are many useful things in NLP, take it for yourself. For starters, just “try on” like clothes, this new belief. There are no failures, there is only feedback from life. If you like the "wear" on your health, if it does not suit you - find the best conviction! Good luck!
