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Salute to those who like to break someone else's account, the author of the article warns that this is a powerful tool they need to be able to use, it can destroy your ideas about the loyalty of friends or the genius of your ideas, but you will only benefit from this, because time is the most valuable resource in our life, you need to clearly understand what to spend it and with whom to live, and this method helps to detect those very weaknesses.
This article will focus on plans and their implementation.
There is an opinion, especially in our CIS, that it is not worth talking about your plans for a number of reasons: they will jinx them, they will steal them, the energy for their implementation will be lost, evil tongues and so on.
It's worth starting with the fact that plans are different, if they are of a criminal nature, then it is really better to keep silent about them.
This article is devoted to other plans, we will talk about the ideas that visit us so often: business projects, startups, personal, outlook on life, physical health, and so on.
In our social circle there are versatile people with completely different vision and thinking, let's fix this as a fact and we will rely on it further in the text, let's go.
One head is good, two is better, but what if there are 5?
Let's fantasize, you wake up in the morning, go to our favorite PB forum, read articles on earnings and then BAM! It dawned on you, here it is, based on what you studied on the forum, you had an idea, that same ingenious bunch that will bring green cutlets. You are satisfied, your breathing quickened, thoughts of your genius do not leave you, oh, if only no one knew, you need to quickly do, "Strike the iron while it is hot!". You begin to collect everything into one, you understand that you yourself will not master, the first butt. You pull up people, they also don't overpower, you continue, but the matter does not move and everything rests on the fact that it has become difficult to promote your project in a conditional instagram, advertising does not pay off, your hands are lowered, you change creatives.
We fantasize further, the same forum, the same bundle, but the approach is different.
You pick up the phone, select a list of friends, acquaintances, people who are near your interests, the number of 3-5 people.
Send them about the following SMS "Hello, there is a topic for discussion, profitable. Today we are going to the old lineup in the hookah bar at 19:00, I will be glad to see you, your opinion is important", you charged people for brain activity, criticism and creativity, your message says that perhaps they will also be involved in this.
19-00 - hookahs are smoked, teas are poured, jokes are tricked, it's time to discuss the matter.
You prepared for the speech, sketched a primitive plan and talk about it, with enthusiasm, with emotion, so that everyone will believe.
As a rule, all meetings are held in the same way, the psychotypes of people are the same, your task is to listen, study, defend your point of view and make decisions.
What are the options:
Your idea was not supported, it happens, but it rarely happens.
Most of your comrades will say that the topic is go? But, you must definitely demand arguments and if their arguments crushed yours, be sure to thank them for saving you a lot of time, but the topic really shit and it did not cost time, you did not have to spend money and time for tests. (This is rarely the case).
At this point, there is a different outcome, everyone will say that the game is not worth the candle, but the arguments in your head will be stronger, moreover, they also sound stronger at the table, you will perk up even more in spirit and strength, you will have a feeling to prove the opposite. You can go further and make a bet, which will be a great motivator for you and you will do everything to ensure that your undertaking is crowned with success (I also had it, unforgettable emotions, I advise). And after you have implemented it yourself, you can invite your friends to take part in the project, they will agree, and your leadership will no longer require confirmation.
The idea was crowned with success.
Comrades listened to your speech, one of them immediately found a gap in your plan and offered to implement everything on another site, because such topics are no longer relevant on Instagram. Another said that he saw a similar project in telegrams, but there is a video format, and not text, as you were going to do. The third said that the idea is cool, he sees a perspective in it and it would be interesting for him to take part in your venture. Fourth, he wants to criticize you, there are always such, but most will crush him. The fifth simply smoked a hookah, listened and was silent, perhaps he himself wanted to implement it or does not understand what is happening and is superfluous here. And it also happens that he will take you aside and say, "friend, I've been doing this topic for more than a year.
The bottom line is that you did not lose money on tests, you heard criticism, had an exciting evening and, most importantly, saved a lot of time and nerves.
Important! Whatever the outcome of your meeting, pay the bill, you have taken people's time, and time is the most valuable resource.
Now let's talk about personal: health, seed, relationships, etc.
It's not worth talking about such seemingly intimate ones at all, but this is not so.
Tell about personal to your three close friends, you can separately and see their reaction.
Someone will offer you a solution that you have not seen yourself, conduct an analysis, weigh everything, perhaps this is the best solution to the issue.
Another will say that he is just reading a book in which it is about your illness and will give advice that will improve your health.
After analyzing the answer of the third, by facial expressions and his comments, you will conclude that this person is gloating, perhaps he should be excluded from your circle altogether.
For a correct analysis, your head should not be empty, read business literature, do not disdain psychology!
This article will focus on plans and their implementation.
There is an opinion, especially in our CIS, that it is not worth talking about your plans for a number of reasons: they will jinx them, they will steal them, the energy for their implementation will be lost, evil tongues and so on.
It's worth starting with the fact that plans are different, if they are of a criminal nature, then it is really better to keep silent about them.
This article is devoted to other plans, we will talk about the ideas that visit us so often: business projects, startups, personal, outlook on life, physical health, and so on.
In our social circle there are versatile people with completely different vision and thinking, let's fix this as a fact and we will rely on it further in the text, let's go.
One head is good, two is better, but what if there are 5?
Let's fantasize, you wake up in the morning, go to our favorite PB forum, read articles on earnings and then BAM! It dawned on you, here it is, based on what you studied on the forum, you had an idea, that same ingenious bunch that will bring green cutlets. You are satisfied, your breathing quickened, thoughts of your genius do not leave you, oh, if only no one knew, you need to quickly do, "Strike the iron while it is hot!". You begin to collect everything into one, you understand that you yourself will not master, the first butt. You pull up people, they also don't overpower, you continue, but the matter does not move and everything rests on the fact that it has become difficult to promote your project in a conditional instagram, advertising does not pay off, your hands are lowered, you change creatives.
We fantasize further, the same forum, the same bundle, but the approach is different.
You pick up the phone, select a list of friends, acquaintances, people who are near your interests, the number of 3-5 people.
Send them about the following SMS "Hello, there is a topic for discussion, profitable. Today we are going to the old lineup in the hookah bar at 19:00, I will be glad to see you, your opinion is important", you charged people for brain activity, criticism and creativity, your message says that perhaps they will also be involved in this.
19-00 - hookahs are smoked, teas are poured, jokes are tricked, it's time to discuss the matter.
You prepared for the speech, sketched a primitive plan and talk about it, with enthusiasm, with emotion, so that everyone will believe.
As a rule, all meetings are held in the same way, the psychotypes of people are the same, your task is to listen, study, defend your point of view and make decisions.
What are the options:
Your idea was not supported, it happens, but it rarely happens.
Most of your comrades will say that the topic is go? But, you must definitely demand arguments and if their arguments crushed yours, be sure to thank them for saving you a lot of time, but the topic really shit and it did not cost time, you did not have to spend money and time for tests. (This is rarely the case).
At this point, there is a different outcome, everyone will say that the game is not worth the candle, but the arguments in your head will be stronger, moreover, they also sound stronger at the table, you will perk up even more in spirit and strength, you will have a feeling to prove the opposite. You can go further and make a bet, which will be a great motivator for you and you will do everything to ensure that your undertaking is crowned with success (I also had it, unforgettable emotions, I advise). And after you have implemented it yourself, you can invite your friends to take part in the project, they will agree, and your leadership will no longer require confirmation.
The idea was crowned with success.
Comrades listened to your speech, one of them immediately found a gap in your plan and offered to implement everything on another site, because such topics are no longer relevant on Instagram. Another said that he saw a similar project in telegrams, but there is a video format, and not text, as you were going to do. The third said that the idea is cool, he sees a perspective in it and it would be interesting for him to take part in your venture. Fourth, he wants to criticize you, there are always such, but most will crush him. The fifth simply smoked a hookah, listened and was silent, perhaps he himself wanted to implement it or does not understand what is happening and is superfluous here. And it also happens that he will take you aside and say, "friend, I've been doing this topic for more than a year.
The bottom line is that you did not lose money on tests, you heard criticism, had an exciting evening and, most importantly, saved a lot of time and nerves.
Important! Whatever the outcome of your meeting, pay the bill, you have taken people's time, and time is the most valuable resource.
Now let's talk about personal: health, seed, relationships, etc.
It's not worth talking about such seemingly intimate ones at all, but this is not so.
Tell about personal to your three close friends, you can separately and see their reaction.
Someone will offer you a solution that you have not seen yourself, conduct an analysis, weigh everything, perhaps this is the best solution to the issue.
Another will say that he is just reading a book in which it is about your illness and will give advice that will improve your health.
After analyzing the answer of the third, by facial expressions and his comments, you will conclude that this person is gloating, perhaps he should be excluded from your circle altogether.
For a correct analysis, your head should not be empty, read business literature, do not disdain psychology!
