Awareness of the need
Before starting the process of self-development, you need to figure out why you need it and whether you need it at all. At this stage, it is not so important whether you want to get rich, or learn to communicate with people more competently - it is much more important to have a strong desire to change your life for the better and put some effort into it. Are you ready to step out of your comfort zone and are not afraid of changes in your life? Okay, then let's move on to the next point.
Study of needs
At this stage, you need to clearly understand what exactly you want to change for the better in your life. Achieve a promotion at work, improve health or become a real communication guru - your further actions will depend on what you choose. Ask yourself the question: "What do I want from life and what should I change in it?" You must be clear about what goals you want to achieve. But do not immediately try to radically change your life, the chance is too great to drop everything and return back to your comfort zone. It is better to do self-development gradually. Set a goal - achieved it, moved on to the next, etc. increasingly. To get started, learn to get up at least 20 minutes earlier ?
Knowing yourself
Once you've decided on your goals, do some introspection. What prevents you from achieving your goals, and what can help? Which character traits do you consider negative and which are positive. It is very important here not to engage in self-deception, but to honestly and openly look at your life with a critical eye. It is better if you write down the results. Yes, that's right, take a blank sheet of paper, a pen and print on it a list of all your advantages and disadvantages. You can also ask a close friend (wife / brother / parents) to rate how your research correlates with the opinions of others.
Drawing up a strategy
You have already definitely decided to engage in self-development, found out what exactly you want to change and assessed all your possibilities, great! Now you need to draw up a strategy for your actions, i.e. how you will achieve your goals. Here, unfortunately, the advice of third-party people is unlikely to help you - you must do it yourself. At this stage, it is important not to overestimate your own strengths and draw up a realistic plan. If you dream of quitting smoking (for example), then think about whether you can get rid of this addiction in an instant, or you will have to gradually give up nicotine. Again, it is best to record your plan on paper (alternatively, in the form of a text document) and hang it in the most conspicuous place.
️ Actions
And now the most important thing is to start working on yourself right now! No excuses "from next week", but today. All the previous points were just preparation, and without real action, they are worthless. Throw away all fears and doubts and finally take the first step along the road of self-development. As you move, be sure to write down the results and compare them with the original plan - what you managed to achieve, and what you should have done more closely. You will succeed!
Before starting the process of self-development, you need to figure out why you need it and whether you need it at all. At this stage, it is not so important whether you want to get rich, or learn to communicate with people more competently - it is much more important to have a strong desire to change your life for the better and put some effort into it. Are you ready to step out of your comfort zone and are not afraid of changes in your life? Okay, then let's move on to the next point.
Study of needs
At this stage, you need to clearly understand what exactly you want to change for the better in your life. Achieve a promotion at work, improve health or become a real communication guru - your further actions will depend on what you choose. Ask yourself the question: "What do I want from life and what should I change in it?" You must be clear about what goals you want to achieve. But do not immediately try to radically change your life, the chance is too great to drop everything and return back to your comfort zone. It is better to do self-development gradually. Set a goal - achieved it, moved on to the next, etc. increasingly. To get started, learn to get up at least 20 minutes earlier ?
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Once you've decided on your goals, do some introspection. What prevents you from achieving your goals, and what can help? Which character traits do you consider negative and which are positive. It is very important here not to engage in self-deception, but to honestly and openly look at your life with a critical eye. It is better if you write down the results. Yes, that's right, take a blank sheet of paper, a pen and print on it a list of all your advantages and disadvantages. You can also ask a close friend (wife / brother / parents) to rate how your research correlates with the opinions of others.
Drawing up a strategy
You have already definitely decided to engage in self-development, found out what exactly you want to change and assessed all your possibilities, great! Now you need to draw up a strategy for your actions, i.e. how you will achieve your goals. Here, unfortunately, the advice of third-party people is unlikely to help you - you must do it yourself. At this stage, it is important not to overestimate your own strengths and draw up a realistic plan. If you dream of quitting smoking (for example), then think about whether you can get rid of this addiction in an instant, or you will have to gradually give up nicotine. Again, it is best to record your plan on paper (alternatively, in the form of a text document) and hang it in the most conspicuous place.
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And now the most important thing is to start working on yourself right now! No excuses "from next week", but today. All the previous points were just preparation, and without real action, they are worthless. Throw away all fears and doubts and finally take the first step along the road of self-development. As you move, be sure to write down the results and compare them with the original plan - what you managed to achieve, and what you should have done more closely. You will succeed!
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