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A promise is, first of all, a responsibility to oneself. When I say to myself "I promise", then I give myself a word that must be fulfilled. It should be. But, unfortunately, most of the time we do not fulfill them. We easily pronounce these words, but we don't, we find a thousand excuses, or even just don't notice it, we forget.
In fact, communication and its fulfillment is the key to responsibility, loyalty and reliability. And, this is a prerequisite for believing in yourself. If we say something to ourselves from time to time and do not fulfill our plans, then every time we will find it harder and harder to believe ourselves. Just like other people in relation to us. This is how the collapse and uncontrollability of what is happening begins in life.
Responsibility is something that you need to develop in yourself day after day, it does not appear by itself. The first place to start is to carefully and honestly double-check what you are going to do. You don't have to take on more than you can actually do, but less too. Estimate the volume of what needs to be done, your capabilities and the time frame for which you are going to do it.
An important factor is that if other people must participate in this to implement the plan, then when working out the plan, this must also be taken into account, because then additional probabilities appear and not everything will depend only on you. Accordingly, you need to add additional options for the development of events and time. And only when you have weighed everything, once again double-checked why you need it and whether you need it at all, then you make a decision and give yourself the word "I'll do it, let's go!" And be sure to do it.
Just do not immediately set yourself tasks of a galactic scale, it is better to start accustoming yourself to fulfill the promised with smaller tasks, then move on to more capacious ones and so, each time completing your own tasks, you will begin to believe in yourself, because if I can, then II can do more. So you will begin to develop in yourself the most important quality of an adult - responsibility for your own life and faith in yourself based on real results. Then a lot of opportunities and prospects for the future will appear in your life!
In fact, communication and its fulfillment is the key to responsibility, loyalty and reliability. And, this is a prerequisite for believing in yourself. If we say something to ourselves from time to time and do not fulfill our plans, then every time we will find it harder and harder to believe ourselves. Just like other people in relation to us. This is how the collapse and uncontrollability of what is happening begins in life.
Responsibility is something that you need to develop in yourself day after day, it does not appear by itself. The first place to start is to carefully and honestly double-check what you are going to do. You don't have to take on more than you can actually do, but less too. Estimate the volume of what needs to be done, your capabilities and the time frame for which you are going to do it.
An important factor is that if other people must participate in this to implement the plan, then when working out the plan, this must also be taken into account, because then additional probabilities appear and not everything will depend only on you. Accordingly, you need to add additional options for the development of events and time. And only when you have weighed everything, once again double-checked why you need it and whether you need it at all, then you make a decision and give yourself the word "I'll do it, let's go!" And be sure to do it.
Just do not immediately set yourself tasks of a galactic scale, it is better to start accustoming yourself to fulfill the promised with smaller tasks, then move on to more capacious ones and so, each time completing your own tasks, you will begin to believe in yourself, because if I can, then II can do more. So you will begin to develop in yourself the most important quality of an adult - responsibility for your own life and faith in yourself based on real results. Then a lot of opportunities and prospects for the future will appear in your life!
