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Whether we like it or not, we will always be surrounded by unpleasant people: they betray, undermine self-confidence, spoil the mood and spread negativity. You should try to refuse communication and interaction with most of them. In this article, you will find a list of the types to avoid in the first place.
It is worth mentioning right away that if you recognize someone close to you on the list, it will be your responsibility to influence him in such a way as to help change. But, as they say, this is a completely different story.
Remember that the time that the unpleasant person periodically takes away, you could spend more profitably, for example, with your family and loved ones.
By the way, with regard to relatives: teach them that sometimes you will be unavailable to them because of work or study. It's amazing that most people get into conflicts with loved ones without even bothering to notify them that they will be busy.
Criticism is dangerous because it hurts us and has a devastating effect on self-confidence and self-esteem.
The danger of communicating with them lies in the fact that the syndrome can be transmitted to the interlocutor and undermine his strength and energy.
Unlike victims, this deficiency can be cured because it requires a focus on three aspects:
At the end of the day, you feel exhausted and can't figure out why. Sometimes the answer lies in communicating with such people. Avoid them.
But if these are your clients, then it is worth working on your own psychology and periodically replenishing energy with the help of meditation and rest.
Dalai Lama: “Love and compassion are a necessity, not a luxury. Humanity cannot survive without them. "
There is one curious moment: we are all partly hypocrites when we communicate with strangers or are in society. A big problem arises if this demeanor permeates a friendship. Act decisively in such cases.
If you are forced to communicate with manipulators, read the article on this topic.
We wish you good luck!
It is worth mentioning right away that if you recognize someone close to you on the list, it will be your responsibility to influence him in such a way as to help change. But, as they say, this is a completely different story.
Time eaters
Although it is not recommended to approach friendship from a practical point of view, if you feel that you are giving more than you are receiving, then you have reason to think. The most valuable resource in the world is time, and no one will give it back to you.Remember that the time that the unpleasant person periodically takes away, you could spend more profitably, for example, with your family and loved ones.
By the way, with regard to relatives: teach them that sometimes you will be unavailable to them because of work or study. It's amazing that most people get into conflicts with loved ones without even bothering to notify them that they will be busy.
Furious critics
There is nothing wrong with constructive criticism and competent feedback. But when you are criticized too often, and even in an impartial form, it's time to make an intermediate or final decision. In the first case, hint to the person that you are unpleasant and that it spoils your mood; in the second, stop communicating with him.Criticism is dangerous because it hurts us and has a devastating effect on self-confidence and self-esteem.
Victims
The victim syndrome causes catastrophic harm to both its owner and everyone around. Such people blame others and are unable to take responsibility for their lives.The danger of communicating with them lies in the fact that the syndrome can be transmitted to the interlocutor and undermine his strength and energy.
People with negative thinking
Negative thinking is also transmitted to others as panic or viral disease. Such people are prone to stress, depression, anxiety and, of course, love to complain.Unlike victims, this deficiency can be cured because it requires a focus on three aspects:
- Physical body
- Thoughts
- Subconscious
Energy vampires
We all experience unpleasant moments in life, but only a select few do not try to quickly tell the whole world about this, or at least the closest interlocutor. Energy vampires not only throw out negativity on us, they also take away strength.At the end of the day, you feel exhausted and can't figure out why. Sometimes the answer lies in communicating with such people. Avoid them.
But if these are your clients, then it is worth working on your own psychology and periodically replenishing energy with the help of meditation and rest.
Insensitive and non-empathic
Science believes that this type of people is prone to psychopathy, so it is worth not only getting rid of them, but also being very attentive. They are unable to put themselves in the place of another and feel what emotions he is experiencing. By knowingly or unknowingly causing pain, insensitive people do not feel guilty or pretend to be ashamed.Dalai Lama: “Love and compassion are a necessity, not a luxury. Humanity cannot survive without them. "
Hypocrites
Hypocrites are difficult to recognize immediately, their motives sometimes become clear after a long period of time.There is one curious moment: we are all partly hypocrites when we communicate with strangers or are in society. A big problem arises if this demeanor permeates a friendship. Act decisively in such cases.
Manipulators
We all want to achieve our goals, especially in relationships. However, manipulators do this in a dishonest way, making the interlocutor feel deceived and humiliated. And these are not the emotions that you want to experience.If you are forced to communicate with manipulators, read the article on this topic.
We wish you good luck!
