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Hello, running in the shadows! Hello, random carders. Today we will talk about such an important shadow component of realife as nonverbal communication. After all, as you know, body language never lies and can tell a lot. Being able to read the gestures of the other person, you will be able to accurately determine how a person treats you. And knowing how to control your body completely - you will not betray your real thoughts, desires and intentions to anyone.
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In most cases, a person's gestures are involuntary, and their meaning is read by us unconsciously. Therefore, by knowing your body language, you can both "read" the other person and intentionally use the gestures described in the conversation to make the necessary impression.
1. Interest
Most people try to follow the unspoken rule of communication and show signs of interest in any conversation, asking the interlocutor about various details. Therefore, it is very important to be able to read the real mood of the interlocutor and his attitude to the conversation by non-verbal signs.
The listener's interest is found in the absence of gestures. The other person who is genuinely delighted with your speeches will be completely focused on you, trying not to make too much noise. Such a person in most cases will stare at you intently, frozen with his whole body. His eyebrows may be slightly raised, and his eyes may be widened.
A person who has a great interest in what is happening, with all his being strives to get closer to the source of information. Therefore, you can notice the tilt of the body in the direction of the speaker.
2. Lack of interest
An uninterested person, on the contrary, will look in different directions, make numerous movements, and look at the phone. The fewer movements the other person makes in a conversation with you, the more interested they are in you.
The person also shows his rejection of the situation by the direction of his gaze. If he looks at the door, he is bored or your company is not particularly pleasant for him. The desire to leave is also indicated by the direction of the body and legs towards the exit.
It is important to be able to distinguish the lack of interest in you from the other person's thoughtfulness. They may be preoccupied with their own problems and show no signs of interest. A person's thoughtfulness can be determined by their hands and gaze.
If the other person's limbs are constantly located somewhere in the head area, he is scratching his head, rubbing his temples, leaning his forehead on his hand, and his eyes are not focused, you can be sure that there is an active thought process going on in his head and at the moment his thoughts are more relevant to him than communication. Therefore, you should not draw conclusions about the rudeness of the interlocutor if you receive a sharp response to your request. It is better to leave a person in this state alone.
3. Respect
For a man, there is the easiest and most reliable way to find out how the other person treats him — this is a handshake. The person who respects you will be the first to extend their hand in greeting. If he does it without much desire or with a delay, he treats you rather haughtily. The length of the handshake, as well as the angle between the hands, also matters: people who respect each other do not try to quickly release their hand, but also keep their hands straight.
The look of a person who respects you is open, the smile is sincere. He often looks in your direction, and if he is looking for approval from you, he will look away when your eyes cross.
4. Sexual attraction
A sincere smile is the best indicator of sympathy. However, you need to learn how to read it. It should be wide, the corners of the mouth should be raised, and the upper eyelids should be slightly lowered. This is a real frank smile, which, like nothing else, indicates your likability to a person. Mirroring the other person's pose is also a universal sign of sympathy.
Confident men express their sympathy for a girl by lingering on her with their eyes. Less confident people, on the contrary, will sometimes glance at the object of sighs, quickly changing the direction of their gaze. Also, a man can attach a belt in the abdominal area with his thumb, direct his feet in the direction of a woman and constantly adjust his clothes in her presence.
The signs of female sympathy are well known: ladies start unconsciously touching their hair and straightening their clothes. Attraction is also indicated by an open mouth, enlarged pupils, and a demonstration of sexual areas of the body.
5. Neglect
A clear sign of a dismissive attitude is a look down: barely open eyes at the moment of greeting, a formal, artificial smile, general lethargy of facial expressions.
If a person's arms are crossed over their chest and their thumbs are raised up, they feel superior. The same is indicated by other signs: hands brought together behind the head or folded in a "house".
6. Distrust
A person who strongly doubts the truth of your words is likely to try to avoid direct eye contact. The other person who has not formed a definite opinion about your words will repeat certain monotonous movements such as scratching their head, raising their hands to their face, and shrugging their shoulders. In such a situation, he really doubts and you still have a chance to persuade him to your point of view.
If a person touches their mouth, they probably don't trust you anymore. He doubts your sincerity, and it will be quite difficult to change his mind.
7. A sense of danger
The person believes that you are dangerous. Not necessarily physical: your words may radically diverge from his position, and he is preparing to defend himself on a verbal level. This condition is indicated by the well-known closed poses: crossed arms or legs. However, the same attribute characterizes insecure people or people who find themselves in an unfamiliar environment.
In this situation, it is best to change the tone and topic of the conversation. Switch to something else, neutral or pleasant for the other person. When his tension subsides, carefully return to the unfinished conversation. If his position becomes open, his legs and arms no longer cross, you can be sure that his attitude towards you has become more friendly.
8. Implicit consent
Very often, people internally agree with what you say, but in conversation they continue to defend their point of view. This can happen for various reasons: perhaps they are trying to negotiate more favorable terms when discussing the contract, although they agree to less. Being able to read this internal consensus is very important.
The absence of the interlocutor's gestures of disagreement and distrust, which are described above, speaks precisely about this. The person will argue with you, but at the level of gestures, he does not give out disagreement, behaving loosely and freely. This is a clear sign of willingness to accept your terms. If, at the moment of denying your words, he makes an affirmative nod of his head, as if saying " Yes, yes, I understand everything, but...", then insist on your point, he really understands everything and has already accepted your conditions.
In general, gentlemen scammers, cyberstalkers, scammers, we take all of the above into service and start working out - on the chan we like, on a harsh teacher from uni, on some seller in the market. There are many options. Go for it! For some schemes that are available in our bot on the channel, these skills are very important and useful.
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Go:
In most cases, a person's gestures are involuntary, and their meaning is read by us unconsciously. Therefore, by knowing your body language, you can both "read" the other person and intentionally use the gestures described in the conversation to make the necessary impression.
1. Interest
Most people try to follow the unspoken rule of communication and show signs of interest in any conversation, asking the interlocutor about various details. Therefore, it is very important to be able to read the real mood of the interlocutor and his attitude to the conversation by non-verbal signs.
The listener's interest is found in the absence of gestures. The other person who is genuinely delighted with your speeches will be completely focused on you, trying not to make too much noise. Such a person in most cases will stare at you intently, frozen with his whole body. His eyebrows may be slightly raised, and his eyes may be widened.
A person who has a great interest in what is happening, with all his being strives to get closer to the source of information. Therefore, you can notice the tilt of the body in the direction of the speaker.
2. Lack of interest
An uninterested person, on the contrary, will look in different directions, make numerous movements, and look at the phone. The fewer movements the other person makes in a conversation with you, the more interested they are in you.
The person also shows his rejection of the situation by the direction of his gaze. If he looks at the door, he is bored or your company is not particularly pleasant for him. The desire to leave is also indicated by the direction of the body and legs towards the exit.
It is important to be able to distinguish the lack of interest in you from the other person's thoughtfulness. They may be preoccupied with their own problems and show no signs of interest. A person's thoughtfulness can be determined by their hands and gaze.
If the other person's limbs are constantly located somewhere in the head area, he is scratching his head, rubbing his temples, leaning his forehead on his hand, and his eyes are not focused, you can be sure that there is an active thought process going on in his head and at the moment his thoughts are more relevant to him than communication. Therefore, you should not draw conclusions about the rudeness of the interlocutor if you receive a sharp response to your request. It is better to leave a person in this state alone.
3. Respect
For a man, there is the easiest and most reliable way to find out how the other person treats him — this is a handshake. The person who respects you will be the first to extend their hand in greeting. If he does it without much desire or with a delay, he treats you rather haughtily. The length of the handshake, as well as the angle between the hands, also matters: people who respect each other do not try to quickly release their hand, but also keep their hands straight.
The look of a person who respects you is open, the smile is sincere. He often looks in your direction, and if he is looking for approval from you, he will look away when your eyes cross.
4. Sexual attraction
A sincere smile is the best indicator of sympathy. However, you need to learn how to read it. It should be wide, the corners of the mouth should be raised, and the upper eyelids should be slightly lowered. This is a real frank smile, which, like nothing else, indicates your likability to a person. Mirroring the other person's pose is also a universal sign of sympathy.
Confident men express their sympathy for a girl by lingering on her with their eyes. Less confident people, on the contrary, will sometimes glance at the object of sighs, quickly changing the direction of their gaze. Also, a man can attach a belt in the abdominal area with his thumb, direct his feet in the direction of a woman and constantly adjust his clothes in her presence.
The signs of female sympathy are well known: ladies start unconsciously touching their hair and straightening their clothes. Attraction is also indicated by an open mouth, enlarged pupils, and a demonstration of sexual areas of the body.
5. Neglect
A clear sign of a dismissive attitude is a look down: barely open eyes at the moment of greeting, a formal, artificial smile, general lethargy of facial expressions.
If a person's arms are crossed over their chest and their thumbs are raised up, they feel superior. The same is indicated by other signs: hands brought together behind the head or folded in a "house".
6. Distrust
A person who strongly doubts the truth of your words is likely to try to avoid direct eye contact. The other person who has not formed a definite opinion about your words will repeat certain monotonous movements such as scratching their head, raising their hands to their face, and shrugging their shoulders. In such a situation, he really doubts and you still have a chance to persuade him to your point of view.
If a person touches their mouth, they probably don't trust you anymore. He doubts your sincerity, and it will be quite difficult to change his mind.
7. A sense of danger
The person believes that you are dangerous. Not necessarily physical: your words may radically diverge from his position, and he is preparing to defend himself on a verbal level. This condition is indicated by the well-known closed poses: crossed arms or legs. However, the same attribute characterizes insecure people or people who find themselves in an unfamiliar environment.
In this situation, it is best to change the tone and topic of the conversation. Switch to something else, neutral or pleasant for the other person. When his tension subsides, carefully return to the unfinished conversation. If his position becomes open, his legs and arms no longer cross, you can be sure that his attitude towards you has become more friendly.
8. Implicit consent
Very often, people internally agree with what you say, but in conversation they continue to defend their point of view. This can happen for various reasons: perhaps they are trying to negotiate more favorable terms when discussing the contract, although they agree to less. Being able to read this internal consensus is very important.
The absence of the interlocutor's gestures of disagreement and distrust, which are described above, speaks precisely about this. The person will argue with you, but at the level of gestures, he does not give out disagreement, behaving loosely and freely. This is a clear sign of willingness to accept your terms. If, at the moment of denying your words, he makes an affirmative nod of his head, as if saying " Yes, yes, I understand everything, but...", then insist on your point, he really understands everything and has already accepted your conditions.
In general, gentlemen scammers, cyberstalkers, scammers, we take all of the above into service and start working out - on the chan we like, on a harsh teacher from uni, on some seller in the market. There are many options. Go for it! For some schemes that are available in our bot on the channel, these skills are very important and useful.
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