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Salute, for those who like to break someone else's account, we will give several ways so that you can understand the essence.
Surely you have noticed without this article that some phrases similar in sound and meaning work in different ways?
Let's take a closer look at this:
Therefore, in order to achieve in a conversation with your interlocutor, when constructing a phrase at the beginning of a sentence, give what the interlocutor needs, for example: "Vladimir, I want to offer you to earn some money by changing the pipes in my apartment. "Thus, you offer the interlocutor to earn money and at the same time made it clear to him that this needs to be done very cheaply. You can also use this technique for constructing phrases in advertisements.
In this situation, the following principle works: the young man deliberately created a very difficult scenario for the girl, the next day, to get a number. After what she heard, the girl immediately imagined how tomorrow some young man would come to her work, and even at lunchtime, to ask for a phone number. ... "how difficult it is" - she will present and in most cases give the phone at once, in order to avoid all the complexity.
Hearing these and similar words in relation to oneself, a person, in most cases, tries to quickly do as he is told.
For example, the dialogue between husband and wife - "Dear, your dirty socks are in the hall again, and not in dirty linen, you always leave them here, you always try to make me angry, do you constantly forget about it?" With this technique, the girl tries to "intensify-complicate" the situation in order to quickly get the desired result. After listening to a large number of such words in his address, the young man will try to resolve this problem as soon as possible. The use of such words in a conversation, in most cases, will help you quickly resolve the issues you need as needed.
When talking, when it comes to something very pleasant for the interlocutor, and his reaction to this is "smile" and "funny emotions", try to touch him at this moment. The sensations of touch in the interlocutor will remain in memory (at a good moment), which will mean that only pleasant memories are associated with you.
Surely you have noticed without this article that some phrases similar in sound and meaning work in different ways?
Let's take a closer look at this:
Method 1.
A banal phrase - "Friend, make yourself a break and make me coffee." As much as it is annoying to your interlocutors from such impudence, he will still go to the kitchen and make coffee, as the phrase you said consists of two theses, namely "... make yourself a break" and "... make me coffee. "You first said what he needs, and then what you need. The brain of your interlocutor perceives the phrase, built by you, like this: "If I want to rest, I need to make coffee."Therefore, in order to achieve in a conversation with your interlocutor, when constructing a phrase at the beginning of a sentence, give what the interlocutor needs, for example: "Vladimir, I want to offer you to earn some money by changing the pipes in my apartment. "Thus, you offer the interlocutor to earn money and at the same time made it clear to him that this needs to be done very cheaply. You can also use this technique for constructing phrases in advertisements.
Method 2.
You need to get the phone number of the girl you like. How to do this so that there is no "misfire"? The option is as follows: You can approach her and say the following phrase: "Girl, can I ask my friend to come to you tomorrow in the middle of the day in order to ask your phone number so that I can call you" Frightened by such a difficult scenario for tomorrow In most cases, you will receive a phone number immediately.In this situation, the following principle works: the young man deliberately created a very difficult scenario for the girl, the next day, to get a number. After what she heard, the girl immediately imagined how tomorrow some young man would come to her work, and even at lunchtime, to ask for a phone number. ... "how difficult it is" - she will present and in most cases give the phone at once, in order to avoid all the complexity.
Method 3.
There are words such as: always, again, constantly, every time, etc.Hearing these and similar words in relation to oneself, a person, in most cases, tries to quickly do as he is told.
For example, the dialogue between husband and wife - "Dear, your dirty socks are in the hall again, and not in dirty linen, you always leave them here, you always try to make me angry, do you constantly forget about it?" With this technique, the girl tries to "intensify-complicate" the situation in order to quickly get the desired result. After listening to a large number of such words in his address, the young man will try to resolve this problem as soon as possible. The use of such words in a conversation, in most cases, will help you quickly resolve the issues you need as needed.
Method 4:
The next example of achieving the desired result in a conversation with an interlocutor is a partial repetition of the end of his phrase, that is, in order to achieve the result you need, try repeating the end of his phrase with the addition of your own ... The interlocutor will perceive your phrase as his own, since part of the sentence he said was used by it.Method 5:
All sentences and phrases starting with the words: Please, be kind, dear, etc. will certainly help to achieve the desired result in the dialogue.Method 6:
Another example that can be applied in communication is voice stress on the word you need. For example: "How many animals of each pair did Moses take with him into the ark? The phrase" ... of each pair ... "is emphasized in a louder voice, thereby forcing the interlocutor to stop attention on this, distracting from the main goal.the respondent will give the correct answer, but Moses was never in the ark, Noah took the animals into the ark and it is called Noah's ark. Most people who are asked this question know that the ark is Noah, but they were deliberately knocked off the target by stress on another phrase.When talking, when it comes to something very pleasant for the interlocutor, and his reaction to this is "smile" and "funny emotions", try to touch him at this moment. The sensations of touch in the interlocutor will remain in memory (at a good moment), which will mean that only pleasant memories are associated with you.