How does the law of attraction of people and events in our life work?

[Teacher]

Despite the fact that the law of attraction, which materializes our thoughts, is widely known, it is often forgotten. Why is this happening, and how can you make it serve you to your advantage? You will learn about all this in this article.

An interesting fact is known. When you work on something for a long time, even if unsuccessfully, strange things start to happen. At a certain moment, the right people meet by themselves, the necessary books, articles, notes and other information are literally poured onto your head.

It is impossible to say exactly when this will begin to happen, but it happens absolutely always and with every person. Mysterious forces of an unknown nature magnetize space, attract and create circumstances. This is how the law of attraction works. Everyone intuitively knows or guesses about it, but not everyone succeeds in putting it at their service. Most often, we come to the conclusion that the only person who has led us into another dead end in life is the one we see in the reflection of the mirror.

The paradox is that we forget about the existence of this law with surprising consistency. Yes Yes! Exactly so - we completely forget, as something insignificant and unimportant. And even if we repeat to ourselves a hundred times a day that “thought is material” and hang signs with this inscription on the walls, there will still be something that will distract us.

What are the reasons that make us forget about the law of attraction?

1. Trouble
Small, large, everyday, expected or often falling on us like snow on our head. Even if we have just been inspired by the magic of managing our lives by watching the movie "The Secret", it will not give us peace of mind. The latter can easily be disturbed by an unpleasant call from work or by your own child who has arranged another tantrum. We instantly switch, start getting angry, offended, raising our voices, forgetting that the mental radio station is still working, sending the truth on the air now is not the most positive impulses.

2. Expectations of yourself and others
“Hmm, I didn't expect this from you! ..” we say and thus divide the world into two parts: in one, pleasant, our expectations come true, and in the other, not very pleasant, no. And as soon as we find ourselves in the latter, then all good things disappear in an instant. Others seem to be inattentive, lazy, callous and even hostile because they have allowed ourselves to go beyond the boundaries that we mentally drew for them. By launching negative expectations, we literally make others turn to us with an impartial, shadowy side.

3. Environment
These are “good” friends, acquaintances, relatives and even relatives, who will once again arrange another heart-to-heart conversation and carefully say, “Put it out of your head! Since such is the fate, then nothing can be done about it ... ”And we gratefully accept the advice, returning to“ normal ”existence and stop radiating“ wrong ”thoughts about a better life. And we have no idea that such "throwing out of my head" turns into a real loss of opportunities that have just begun to be attracted to us according to the same law.

4. Fleeting desire instead of intention
When we see a glass of water on the table in front of us, which we are going to drink, we simply reach out and take it. Without any doubts. No "back" thoughts. We just do it and that's it. This is how our intention works, which is "on a short leg" with the law of attraction. But if our conscious part, filled with various immediate desires and other "important" information, interferes in this process, then everything becomes much more complicated. We may suddenly realize that there is not a simple glass on the table, but a specimen made of rare crystal and estimated at more than tens of thousands of dollars. Moreover, it is filled not with simple, but with healing and instantly rejuvenating water, which in nature exists in one single place on the planet. After these thoughts,

5. Internal conflict
In the previous paragraph, a particular example of what can be called an internal conflict was disclosed. In addition to the discrepancy between desire and intention, the conflict can be between logic and intuition, mind and body, past and future. The latter is nothing more than parental prescriptions and prohibitions from the past, which call into question the goals that we want to achieve in the future. When we send conflicting signals to the world, the result will be unpredictable, or none at all, since there is a protesting part inside of us that is causing interference.

Let's try to collect all of the above together.

It turns out that making the law of attraction serve your advantage is not so easy. There are a number of factors, both external and internal, that seriously interfere with the metaphysical process of materializing thoughts.

How can we resist this?

There is only one way out. If we want to control our thoughts, then only our conscious part will help us here, which should be "loaded" with additional controlling functions. Namely - asking yourself periodically questions. With the subsequent receipt of answers, of course. Let's go through the same five points described above.

1. Trouble
Is it really a serious nuisance to be so upset?
What bad thing did this unpleasant event save me from?
Will I be able to take a break next time and react more gently to this?

2. Expectations of yourself and others
What, in my opinion, has violated the other by his behavior so seriously?
Do I always myself (myself) adhere to this principle?
What is more important than this in our relationship?

3. Environment
Is there a rational link in those doubts that others want to sow in me?
What are they trying to protect me from in this way?
What can you agree with in criticizing others, and what you shouldn't?

4. Fleeting desire instead of intention
Do I really need what I want?
What's so bad about it if I don't get what I want?
How important should my desire really be?

5. Internal conflict
What's inside me that resists getting what I want?
Why can't I get what I want?
What arguments can I give for each of the objections raised?