Don't fall into your own traps

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We are talking about brain traps that we ourselves create with our own questions. Here is what Nikolai Latansky says about this: “What do you think you will receive from your subconscious mind for the following reflections:“ Why can't I lose weight? Why can't I get married? Why can't I make more money? "Your subconscious mind will answer you:" Because you overeat, because you are ugly, because you do not have enough connections. "As you can see, what you asked about, you got it in response. Answers to these questions direct you to the negativity and can pretty much ruin your life.

The problem is not the answers, the problem is the questions you are asking yourself. Compare the two questions: "Why can't I lose weight?" and "How can I get slimmer and enjoy this process?" The topic is the same, the wording is different. The second question is designed in such a way as to attract what you need into your life, instead of focusing on what you don't need. "

As eminent personal growth coach Anthony Robbins says, the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask yourself. Ask yourself the right questions. If something is not working out for you, avoid questions that begin with the word "why?" This question will make you walk in a vicious circle.

Instead, ask yourself "what?" And How? "." How can I achieve this? What can I do to create a better relationship? What habits can I develop to create more energy and health? How to create more space and achieve more freedom in life? "more questions that will guide you to the positive:“ For what and to whom am I grateful in life? What attracts me the most? Whom do I love and who loves me? " “What will be my next step? Is what I am doing now really moving me towards my goals? What would be the most efficient use of my time now?"

Brian Tracy writes: “Well-formulated questions are powerful stimulators of creativity. The more you find different formulations for your problem, the more ideas and options you can come up with to solve it. Beware of problems with only one definition."

"What can we do right now to change our approach to the current situation?"

The more ways you can define a problem, the more clearly defined and achievable the solution becomes.

By asking yourself the right questions, you activate your brain to search for answers. Post question stickers at home and at work that will promote you. For example, on the refrigerator - "What is the best thing I can do now for my body and my health?"

When you ask yourself questions focused on the future you want, you get what you want, not what you don't want.

Don't fall into the trap of your own questions!
 
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