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The desire for comparison is laid in people from childhood. At school, you were constantly assessed and compared to your classmates. Many are constantly compared to someone by their parents and so on.
All your life you are taught to run, fight, become a winner, destroy everything and everyone in your path in the name of a noble goal. But no one will say that this race has no meaning.
Likewise, no one around you will advise you to follow your individual path, look for differences in yourself from other people, and not strive to be like a gray mass.
It turns out that you are not the helmsman - your life is ruled for you.
But here's the trick: as long as you are the same as everyone else, you can not even think about any victories and outstanding success. Real victories begin only where a person has managed to get out of the cocoon of his prejudices and truly follow his desires.
And everything else is just a primitive existence for the sake of maintaining an acceptable role for all in society.
If you're aiming for more, here are some tips:
1. Live for yourself, because living for everyone but yourself is a real hell.
2. Don't hold anyone responsible for your pain.
3. Stop comparing yourself to someone and do not overwhelm yourself with the achievements of others.
4. Stop proving something is not clear to whom.
5. Work not a lot, but with your head.
6. Develop creativity.
7. Be heartfelt in what you are doing.
8. You must create the meaning of your own life yourself.
All your life you are taught to run, fight, become a winner, destroy everything and everyone in your path in the name of a noble goal. But no one will say that this race has no meaning.
Likewise, no one around you will advise you to follow your individual path, look for differences in yourself from other people, and not strive to be like a gray mass.
It turns out that you are not the helmsman - your life is ruled for you.
But here's the trick: as long as you are the same as everyone else, you can not even think about any victories and outstanding success. Real victories begin only where a person has managed to get out of the cocoon of his prejudices and truly follow his desires.
And everything else is just a primitive existence for the sake of maintaining an acceptable role for all in society.
If you're aiming for more, here are some tips:
1. Live for yourself, because living for everyone but yourself is a real hell.
2. Don't hold anyone responsible for your pain.
3. Stop comparing yourself to someone and do not overwhelm yourself with the achievements of others.
4. Stop proving something is not clear to whom.
5. Work not a lot, but with your head.
6. Develop creativity.
7. Be heartfelt in what you are doing.
8. You must create the meaning of your own life yourself.
