Be unhappy carder

[Teacher]

When you are unhappy, you gain something from it. When you are happy, you always lose.

When you are unhappy, someone sympathizes with you, and you gain sympathy. When you are sick, you become important. And you start to use it sometimes, inventing a disease for yourself, you start to believe in it and then you really get sick. When you are unhappy, everyone is attentive and notices it, someone shows love, someone wants to help: and you gain attention, love, any help. If they look at you, you become important. Attention gives you energy: you feel like someone. Hence such a great need, such a desire to receive attention. If no one looks at you, pays attention, you feel unnecessary, forgotten. It's like you're nobody.

Every time you are happy, when you are joyful, when you experience ecstasy and bliss, when you laugh heartily, everyone envies you, people see something abnormal in this. Envy, jealousy means that everyone is against you, no one is your friend. Thus, you have learned to never be in ecstasy, so that no one becomes hostile to you - not to show joy, not to laugh heartily. You begin to hide it, to hide it, so that no one sees, recognizes and does not begin to experience negative feelings towards you. And you also call it (the evil eye), so as not to be jinxed, you do not speak and do not show howling joy, as if you had stolen this feeling of happiness for yourself for a while. Which is from birth and so is yours.

If you are unhappy, no one will think that you are crazy. If you are in ecstasy and dance, show joy violently, everyone will think that you are crazy.

If a person is happy, he cannot be taken to war, he cannot be manipulated, he does not need it, and this is unprofitable for society (politics). If people are ecstatic, the whole structure of this society will have to change. This society is based on misery. Unhappiness is the main investment of this society. Therefore, we raise children ... from the very beginning, we create a tendency to be unhappy. In order not to stand out and be like everyone else.

At every moment there is a choice: to be unhappy or happy. You always choose to be unhappy because a lot has been invested in it. Because it has become a habit, it has become an established stereotype; you've always done it. You learned to do it well, and the track is rolled.

The choice is to be happy or not, but you have ceased even to be aware of it. You chose wrong with such consistency, and the habit is so petrified that you just choose it automatically.

Become alert. Every moment you choose to be unhappy, remember: this is your choice. Even this attention will help. The vigilance is that this is your choice, and you are responsible, and it is you who do this to yourself, this is your action ... immediately you will feel the change. The quality of the mind will change. It will be easier for you to move in the direction of HAPPINESS.

And as soon as you understand that it is your choice, then it all turns into a game. So, if you like to be unhappy, be unhappy, but remember: this is your choice, do not complain. There is no one else who is responsible for this. This is your drama. If you like everything and everyone to be unhappy, if you want to go through life in unhappiness, go, this is your game. You play it. Play your best!