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Salute to those who like to break someone else's account, today we have an article for those who do not want to fall into the trap of an emotional manipulator.
1. He undermines your faith in your own sanity.
Emotional manipulators are incredibly talented liars. They insist that they didn't do something when you saw it, or they claim they said something when you know for sure that they didn't say it. The trouble is that they lie so well that you end up questioning your own sanity. Insisting that all problems are just a figment of your imagination is their favorite way of avoiding trouble.
2. His actions do not match his words.
Emotional manipulators tell you what you want to hear, but their actions are a different story. They declare that they will always support you, but when the time comes to do so, they pretend that all your requests are unreasonable.
3. He plays on feelings of guilt.
Emotional manipulators use your guilt feelings to their advantage. Telling them about your problems will make you feel guilty about bothering them. Without telling, you will feel guilty for keeping secrets. Emotional manipulators make you feel that everything you do is wrong and that all problems are your fault.
4. He claims to be the victim.
Emotional manipulators are never at fault. No matter what mistake they made, it is always someone else's fault (most likely you). If you are angry or upset, your high expectations are to blame; if the manipulator is upset, it is your fault for upsetting him. Emotional manipulators don't take responsibility for anything.
5. He rushes things too quickly.
Whether it's personal or business, emotional manipulators always get ahead of themselves. They start sharing important things too quickly and expect the same from you. They portray vulnerability and sensitivity, but this is a trap. It is designed to make you feel special, close to you and begin to feel pity for the manipulator and responsibility for his emotional state.
6. He willingly agrees to help, and then portrays the sufferer.
The initial desire to help quickly turns into sighs, moans, and claims that whatever they are doing is overwhelming. The goal is to make you feel indebted to the manipulator.
7. He is always worse than you.
Whatever problems you come to the manipulator, he will definitely say that his situation is even worse. They never tire of reminding them that their problems are much more serious, so you have no reason to complain.
8. He knows your weaknesses and uses it against you.
If you're worried about your weight, you're sure to get a couple of comments about what you eat or what clothes you wear. If you are worried about an upcoming presentation, they will try to intimidate you even more. They read your emotions easily, but they only use this skill to manipulate you, not trying to make you feel better.
Emotional manipulators can drive you crazy with their irrational behavior. Don't try to beat them at their game. Maintain emotional distance, do not give in and do not allow yourself to fall into their traps.
1. He undermines your faith in your own sanity.
Emotional manipulators are incredibly talented liars. They insist that they didn't do something when you saw it, or they claim they said something when you know for sure that they didn't say it. The trouble is that they lie so well that you end up questioning your own sanity. Insisting that all problems are just a figment of your imagination is their favorite way of avoiding trouble.
2. His actions do not match his words.
Emotional manipulators tell you what you want to hear, but their actions are a different story. They declare that they will always support you, but when the time comes to do so, they pretend that all your requests are unreasonable.
3. He plays on feelings of guilt.
Emotional manipulators use your guilt feelings to their advantage. Telling them about your problems will make you feel guilty about bothering them. Without telling, you will feel guilty for keeping secrets. Emotional manipulators make you feel that everything you do is wrong and that all problems are your fault.
4. He claims to be the victim.
Emotional manipulators are never at fault. No matter what mistake they made, it is always someone else's fault (most likely you). If you are angry or upset, your high expectations are to blame; if the manipulator is upset, it is your fault for upsetting him. Emotional manipulators don't take responsibility for anything.
5. He rushes things too quickly.
Whether it's personal or business, emotional manipulators always get ahead of themselves. They start sharing important things too quickly and expect the same from you. They portray vulnerability and sensitivity, but this is a trap. It is designed to make you feel special, close to you and begin to feel pity for the manipulator and responsibility for his emotional state.
6. He willingly agrees to help, and then portrays the sufferer.
The initial desire to help quickly turns into sighs, moans, and claims that whatever they are doing is overwhelming. The goal is to make you feel indebted to the manipulator.
7. He is always worse than you.
Whatever problems you come to the manipulator, he will definitely say that his situation is even worse. They never tire of reminding them that their problems are much more serious, so you have no reason to complain.
8. He knows your weaknesses and uses it against you.
If you're worried about your weight, you're sure to get a couple of comments about what you eat or what clothes you wear. If you are worried about an upcoming presentation, they will try to intimidate you even more. They read your emotions easily, but they only use this skill to manipulate you, not trying to make you feel better.
Emotional manipulators can drive you crazy with their irrational behavior. Don't try to beat them at their game. Maintain emotional distance, do not give in and do not allow yourself to fall into their traps.
