Lord777
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Let's see what exactly stupidity is manifested in and how it can interfere with enjoying life, not only for those who deal with such a person, but also for himself.
? A fool only talks about himself
Any communication implies dialogue, and a mature person usually understands that this is a way of exchanging information. Exchange, not planting. It happens, of course, that a person needs to speak out when something happened - it happens to everyone. But if we are talking about a pathological solo, when the interlocutor does not have the opportunity to insert at least a word, and even more so to tell something, we are dealing with a fool.
And don't tell me about a narcissistic person. All that matters in this case is that the person did not understand that the ability to listen is an important resource in the process of gaining life experience. In addition, this quality is very valuable in friendly communication. And if only I am listening - why not someone more interesting? There are a lot of intelligent lecturers now.
? There are many people, they are loud
Imagine: a restaurant, dim lights, people chatting, someone is working on a laptop, someone is having a quiet romantic meeting. Here and there the sound increases slightly: they laughed, greet those who came ... And suddenly, among this cozy noise - the importunate voice of a lady who tells the interlocutor the details of her personal life. And already none of those present can be on the sidelines.
The rules of etiquette, like the instruction manual for the kettle, are in many ways protection from the fool. Demonstrations of the fool in oneself.
We don’t want to listen, especially since it’s not interesting, stupid, flat ... But this is how our brain works: we have to pay attention to sharp sounds, because life can depend on it. And now the whole restaurant is devoted to the details of the divorce ...
The rules of etiquette are involuntarily remembered. They, like the instruction manual for the kettle, are in many ways foolproof. Demonstrations of the fool in oneself.
? The fool ignores the needs of the other person
Is it interesting to him? Is he tired? Maybe he needs to move away, but he just can't catch a suitable pause? In one breath, such a person fills the entire space. It is especially difficult for delicate people who are afraid of offending, being inappropriate.
The absence of the need for feedback speaks of an infantile self-confidence. Such interlocutors are like a child not yet endowed with empathy, who cannot understand that his mother is tired of dragging him on a sled for the eighteenth kilometer. So they, on the one hand, seem to make it clear: "If you don't like something, just say it." And on the other - yeah, try it, tell me. Paying off your grievances - thank you, not today.
The fool has no doubts about his attitudes
In my opinion, this is the height of stupidity. Look at any area of science, how ideas have changed over time. Something was considered true, indisputable, and then one discovery turned the entire system of knowledge upside down and past beliefs in one day turned into deep delusions.
In addition, rigid thinking, when a person does not know how to be flexible and take into account new knowledge, is a direct path to Alzheimer's. This is what modern research says. But who knows, maybe they will change their minds ...
? A stupid person divides things into black and white
The categorical attitude, especially multiplied by stubbornness, is another sign of stupidity. If you miss a turn, you have topographic cretinism. And that's it, now you will remain so for the rest of your life. Lack of recognition of halftones, context and situation - this is certainly not characteristic of smart people.
... This text is an example of this division. To divide people into fools and smart is very stupid. After all, each person has his own story and his own experience, which led to the fact that at this stage of life a person speaks only about himself, does not check with the interlocutor, or is captured by fears.
Each of us can sometimes behave stupidly, so the best thing we can do is to pay attention to our inner life and give maximum goodwill to the world around us.
? A fool only talks about himself
Any communication implies dialogue, and a mature person usually understands that this is a way of exchanging information. Exchange, not planting. It happens, of course, that a person needs to speak out when something happened - it happens to everyone. But if we are talking about a pathological solo, when the interlocutor does not have the opportunity to insert at least a word, and even more so to tell something, we are dealing with a fool.
And don't tell me about a narcissistic person. All that matters in this case is that the person did not understand that the ability to listen is an important resource in the process of gaining life experience. In addition, this quality is very valuable in friendly communication. And if only I am listening - why not someone more interesting? There are a lot of intelligent lecturers now.
? There are many people, they are loud
Imagine: a restaurant, dim lights, people chatting, someone is working on a laptop, someone is having a quiet romantic meeting. Here and there the sound increases slightly: they laughed, greet those who came ... And suddenly, among this cozy noise - the importunate voice of a lady who tells the interlocutor the details of her personal life. And already none of those present can be on the sidelines.
The rules of etiquette, like the instruction manual for the kettle, are in many ways protection from the fool. Demonstrations of the fool in oneself.
We don’t want to listen, especially since it’s not interesting, stupid, flat ... But this is how our brain works: we have to pay attention to sharp sounds, because life can depend on it. And now the whole restaurant is devoted to the details of the divorce ...
The rules of etiquette are involuntarily remembered. They, like the instruction manual for the kettle, are in many ways foolproof. Demonstrations of the fool in oneself.
? The fool ignores the needs of the other person
Is it interesting to him? Is he tired? Maybe he needs to move away, but he just can't catch a suitable pause? In one breath, such a person fills the entire space. It is especially difficult for delicate people who are afraid of offending, being inappropriate.
The absence of the need for feedback speaks of an infantile self-confidence. Such interlocutors are like a child not yet endowed with empathy, who cannot understand that his mother is tired of dragging him on a sled for the eighteenth kilometer. So they, on the one hand, seem to make it clear: "If you don't like something, just say it." And on the other - yeah, try it, tell me. Paying off your grievances - thank you, not today.
The fool has no doubts about his attitudesIn my opinion, this is the height of stupidity. Look at any area of science, how ideas have changed over time. Something was considered true, indisputable, and then one discovery turned the entire system of knowledge upside down and past beliefs in one day turned into deep delusions.
In addition, rigid thinking, when a person does not know how to be flexible and take into account new knowledge, is a direct path to Alzheimer's. This is what modern research says. But who knows, maybe they will change their minds ...
? A stupid person divides things into black and white
The categorical attitude, especially multiplied by stubbornness, is another sign of stupidity. If you miss a turn, you have topographic cretinism. And that's it, now you will remain so for the rest of your life. Lack of recognition of halftones, context and situation - this is certainly not characteristic of smart people.
... This text is an example of this division. To divide people into fools and smart is very stupid. After all, each person has his own story and his own experience, which led to the fact that at this stage of life a person speaks only about himself, does not check with the interlocutor, or is captured by fears.
Each of us can sometimes behave stupidly, so the best thing we can do is to pay attention to our inner life and give maximum goodwill to the world around us.
