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In addition to smoking, biting nails and squeezing out pimples, there are many bad habits that harm not the body and appearance, but the state of mind. It's time to get rid of them.
1. The habit of seeking approval
If you are looking for an assessment of yourself on the side, you do not know your worth. In search of the "five" in your conditional diary, you do not what you want, but what you can praise for. In other words, you are living a life that is not your own, for which you are also praised. Well, or they scold. Ask yourself, is it worth wasting your life on pleasing everyone?
2. The habit of hoping
There is nothing wrong with Hope until it becomes the only way to achieve your goals. Instead of actions, you let everything take its course and begin to harbor hopes for a positive outcome? Resign yourself - it's almost futile. You don't need to hope that you will meet a handsome man, or that you will be promoted to a director - put your efforts into your appearance and grooming, and also do not forget to show good results at work, because this is how they are offered a promotion.
3. The habit of being competitive
Rivalry on a cycle track or in a corporate competition for the best department is healthy competition. Problems begin when the rivalry becomes akin to a zeal to be the best. Why? Behind this lies a banal self-doubt. It is worth accepting that there will always be someone who will be better than you in something. Be the best, not better than someone else, otherwise your strangled ego will be your incentive to the last to live not for yourself, but in a race with someone.
4. The habit of comparing
Or rather, to compare yourself with others. If you deny your uniqueness, you will never get better, no matter how much you compare. There is no need to assess yourself through the prism of appearance, achievements, and the success of others. After all, this way you will always be behind.
5. Habit to manipulate
When you achieve your goals by manipulating others, you will never believe in yourself. If you resort to all sorts of tricks to achieve your goals, only for someone else to lead you by the hand along your path, you are not learning anything. You do not grow, do not study, do not develop. Instead of looking for new ways to manipulate, it's better to look for a way to solve the problem yourself.
1. The habit of seeking approval
If you are looking for an assessment of yourself on the side, you do not know your worth. In search of the "five" in your conditional diary, you do not what you want, but what you can praise for. In other words, you are living a life that is not your own, for which you are also praised. Well, or they scold. Ask yourself, is it worth wasting your life on pleasing everyone?
2. The habit of hoping
There is nothing wrong with Hope until it becomes the only way to achieve your goals. Instead of actions, you let everything take its course and begin to harbor hopes for a positive outcome? Resign yourself - it's almost futile. You don't need to hope that you will meet a handsome man, or that you will be promoted to a director - put your efforts into your appearance and grooming, and also do not forget to show good results at work, because this is how they are offered a promotion.
3. The habit of being competitive
Rivalry on a cycle track or in a corporate competition for the best department is healthy competition. Problems begin when the rivalry becomes akin to a zeal to be the best. Why? Behind this lies a banal self-doubt. It is worth accepting that there will always be someone who will be better than you in something. Be the best, not better than someone else, otherwise your strangled ego will be your incentive to the last to live not for yourself, but in a race with someone.
4. The habit of comparing
Or rather, to compare yourself with others. If you deny your uniqueness, you will never get better, no matter how much you compare. There is no need to assess yourself through the prism of appearance, achievements, and the success of others. After all, this way you will always be behind.
5. Habit to manipulate
When you achieve your goals by manipulating others, you will never believe in yourself. If you resort to all sorts of tricks to achieve your goals, only for someone else to lead you by the hand along your path, you are not learning anything. You do not grow, do not study, do not develop. Instead of looking for new ways to manipulate, it's better to look for a way to solve the problem yourself.
